How to be Happy: Daily Dose of Motivation

     Happiness is a self-made emotion that we gift ourselves to stay positive and to keep our happy emotions alive. Most of the time, we just fail to understand that we are the ones who are responsible for our happiness. When we start searching for happiness outside, especially from others, we just start to fail as an individual.
     Love yourself and cherish your time because we cannot go back in time. To go back is impossible in existence. Cherish each and every moment without thinking about the past and worrying about the future. Today is a gift from God, so utilize it to its maximum. When you have clarity in choosing positivity in your thoughts and emotions, life could start to feel happier, irrespective of all the tough and rough phase which came across your way.
     Worrying is like burning our hard-earned money, which becomes useless for us as well as for others. Think wisely and set your boundaries accordingly. Life is to live, so live it happily.

With Love and Positivity,

Swathi Kannan ❤️

Importance and Power of Education

     Life has always been an unfathomable and mystifying journey. Everything we enjoy, experience, learn and love is just a part of our life. Today, I had the opportunity to watch a debate (In Tamil we call pattimandram) on a topic,

What adds Greatness to life

EDUCATION Vs MONEY

      Finally, the debate ended with the note that “Education gives greatness in life”. The convener mentioned a great term

“We never even know the millionaires and billionaires lived during the ancient period but we know and celebrate the life and works of ancient poets namely Thiruvalluvar, Kambar, and so on.”

       This gave me goosebumps. Thus, education has always been an integral part of human existence. A human life without education, knowledge, wisdom, and rational thinking is something not good for themselves and society as well.

      Education helps to identify our inner talents and potential. Education makes us morally and ethically fit for life. Education is the fuel to the soul. So, Stay educated and learn good values and deeds through educating yourself on a daily basis.

 

Self-Love

        We are the heroes and heroines of our story called life. We human beings are more self-centered. We keep ourselves before anyone around us and it is the common character of most people in the world. Here,  there is nothing wrong with holding that attitude but make sure that doesn't affect the people around us, especially our near and dear ones in life. 

       

        Respect, love, care, and cherish yourself because that leads to happiness but never intentionally hurt others in the process of taking care of yourself. Love yourself as much as possible because self-care makes us evolve stronger and emerge positive in life. 

     

         Be the best version of yourself and upgrade yourself with good thoughts and values. Most importantly, STAY POSITIVE

What Goes Around Comes Around

        Human life is filled with both ups and downs. It is hard to predict when ups and downs will come in our life. The only way to handle everything in life is to stay calm and composed during our highs and lows. Here, it is not at all easy to follow the things we preach but there is no other way to go.

     

       Practicing calmness is hard but when you learn to master that peace and calmness within yourself then you can face anything in life with a broad smile on your face. Remember one simple rule, "What goes around just comes around". Directly or indirectly we are the main cause of all our happiness and our tough days.

         

           Never lose your smile because that's the greatest asset one can proudly own.

Birth ➡️ Death

        Life is a beautiful journey that starts at the station called "Birth" and reaches the final station called "Death". Both these stations are common in everyone's journey but the way we look at our journey decides whether it is a worthy one or not.

       In, each phase of our life we will be filled with multiple emotions. We will be filled with happiness, sadness, joy, empathy, gratitude, peace, and so on. We will experience such emotions during different stages of our life. Here, life is a one-way road in which we cannot return. We can rewind our journey in our memories but we cannot relive them. 

         Make sure to stay happy to the fullest during the happy times and worry less during the tough times because life is a short journey and there is no use in looking back and feeling bad. 

          Enjoy your day, smile, and spread positivity.

Life has to Move On

         Human life is all about understanding and accepting the things which we face. At times, it will be hard to accept, and at certain times it will be even harder to understand but there is no other way to go on with life. The simple philosophy of life is "Whatever happens life has to move on". Happiness and sadness are the two sides of the coin called life. One who rejoices in their happiness should undergo some tough days and that is what life is all about.

       Accept life because that leads to peace and the peace we attain within ourselves will bring harmony. Overthinking and negative thoughts are enemies that destroy our peace. Be thankful for being alive because life is a gift. We realize and analyze things later after they become out of control in our life.

       Be Positive and Spread Positivity

All About Life - Back with Positivity

      In Life, we often forget our true identity, especially during our tough times and personal lows. One of my favorite professors in college will usually decode a statement that "Women's writing is always filled with pain, tears, and unhappiness because a woman keeps her pen on the paper during the tough times or when she faces lots of struggles". 

       My Professor's words are true to a certain extent but my view here is "mourning through writing is something which just steals of beautiful time on this earth and our words, ideas, and energy becomes waste in conveying something negative which is common in the world".

      I consider that approaching life's negative situation positively is the superior quality of new-age women. Even the toughest days teach us something positive. They help us to rekindle ourselves and make us reach the core of our being. Finally, our pure inner self will sparkle with the good old days of our lives and help us find the qualities we loved the most about ourselves and the quality which made us better individuals.

       For me, it's all about reading, writing, spreading positivity, and being a happy soul. That's why I am here to be positive and to spread positivity. Kindle your inner self to find your calling and happiness. 

        Just Wait for 24 hours for another post filled with Positivity until then Stay Positive.

Quotes of the Day

 1.Just smile and spread positivity.

 2.Be there for the people who need you in their life.

 3.Shine and sparkle in the place where you are planted.

 4. Eyes speak louder than our mouths.

 5. Pay gratitude and stay peaceful in mind.

Happy December - Back to My Happiness

        Welcome December!!!

       December is all about gratitude, joy, merriment and happiness. Being grateful for each and everything we have in our life makes us much happier. Here, I am back to my world of happiness- blogging on this beautiful month which I personally love the most.

       When our heart and mind come together to celebrate something that is where the true purpose of our life resides. Writing for me is a soulful thing which I consider as a driving force to lead my life in a better as well as a positive way. Today’s writing is about “How to stay connected with our inner calling”.

        We human beings are filled with certain purposes and our inner calling. We are here on this earth for a certain reason and that is what we call our purpose. Finding our purpose and making that into our living makes our life a blissful one. We might either be happy, sad or filled with any other emotion at some point but at that time when we do something which we truly love our negative emotions will just get vanished. Suddenly, our mind and heart will be filled with happiness and gratitude.

        The human mind is designed in a particular way to respond to the beautiful things which make us happier. Find your inner calling – your so-called purpose, desire and the place of your happiness. Finally, stay true to your calling, improve yourself, extract the best out of yourself and believe that you can and you will. A small step daily towards your vision will lead you to great things. Love your life, and focus on the positive, bright and happier side of life to stay cheerful.

 

 

Life - A Blessing

       Human life is just the combination of both happy as well as unhappy days. Few situations in life will make us extremely happy but on the other hand few situations will break us but always remember that the situation which break us have the ultimate power to make us. Those unhappy times will teach us patience, calmness and most importantly they will help us to kindle all our good values. 

       Stay calm during tough times and never fill yourself with negative thoughts rather try to think some positive thoughts. It will be hard to think about good things when our mind is filled with negative emotions so just speak with the people who can bring some positivity into your life. 

      Live life to its fullest because it is a huge blessing to be born as a human being on this beautiful planet called Earth. Cherish life and Enjoy your living.

A Positive Way of Approaching Life

      The breaks we take in life make us realize ourselves more deeply. A life without a passion is something ordinary and that eventually makes us bored about everything. Have a passion and do something on daily basis to develop yourself. Spent time with yourself and know your needs. Fulfil those needs if you think that they will make you grow in life. The difference between ordinary living and extraordinary living lies in the choices we make. Sometimes we might be left choiceless but grab hold of the time which we have for ourselves and spent that time in a happy and meaningful way.

       The quality of time which we spent with ourselves will make us wiser. Invest your time in the things which creates your interests. Love life and never complain about anything because if we develop the attitude of complaining then life will turn out to be a noisy one in our heads. Most importantly stay positive, think good thoughts, discuss good things, enrich yourself and keep yourself occupied with just happy thoughts.

      Human life is something special that we often take for granted. The granted attitude which we practice makes our life tougher. Live a meaningful life by understanding that we are gifted with a beautiful life. Practice patience and calmness because those two qualities will make our lives a happier one irrespective of anything which we face. Stay good and spread happiness.

  

The Unexpectedness of Life

       Human life on this earth is filled with unimaginable unexpectedness. The level of predictability is low compared to all the unexpected situation which turns our life just upside down. Here, we humans have to accept life the way it is because true happiness lies in understanding and accepting life the way it is given to us. Worrying and finding faults will always make us weak internally. So, try and find out a positive way to approach each situation in your life. As we all know that life is a journey which cannot be relived. Make your life a precious one by living in the moment and making that moment a special one.

       Sometimes, life just acts like a mirror. It just reflects the things which are inside our heart so keep your hearts happier and think of all the good things. Then, life will automatically become a happier one irrespective of all our situations. 

True Pleasure Lies In Calmness

 

       Staying disciplined, patient and calm during usual times is just an easy thing to follow but remaining calm and composed during tough and difficult times in life is the greatest task in which most of us fail. Life is a combination of series of ups and downs both emotionally and mentally but staying quiet during such times determines our character, the qualities we practice and the values we follow.

       Calmness is the byproduct of clear thoughts and open mind. Be clear, understand and analyze the situation. Never over react because reacting more is all about wasting our precious time just by worrying and over thinking. Stay true to yourself and carry a smile on your face which is a contagious emotion.

        Losing our temper is easy but collecting ourselves back is tougher than we actually think. Calmness is the quality of wise. Stay wise and practice patience because life is something beautiful than we actually think. Never spoil your beautiful and worthy journey for few silly reasons which you might regret later for reacting too much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Each Day Is A Blessing

 

      There will always be few moments in our life that will make us melt and sometimes make us realize the true beauty of our life. We always revisit and remember those moments vividly. With each passing day in our life, those memories will get attached close to our hearts. Life is all about living in that beautiful moments and storing them for lifetime happiness.

      Life is way beautiful than what we expect it to be but it takes a happy soul to relish those evergreen moments for a lifetime. Always have a positive outlook on life. What we expect will always reach us in some way so think good thoughts and expect good times.

       Each day is a blessed day for the ones who carry a wide smile on the face and genuine happiness in the heart. Life is just a handful of beautiful days which are to be spent happily and pleasantly.

 

 

 

Beauty of Each Day in Life

      Enjoy, celebrate, learn, accept and live each phase of your life to its fullest because each day in our life is just special. Each day in our life is a new day with new experiences, new happiness and new lessons. Whatever you feel and observe just becomes your reality in life.

      Human life is all about mixed feelings and emotions. When we learn to take everything on a lighter note then life will look happier even during difficult times. Carry a smile on your face to feel happy at heart and to transmit good vibes to the people around you.

      Everything in life is all about the way we understand and accept it. Just understand that life is a beautiful journey that cannot be relived but can only be replayed and accept that every day in our life is just a new experience.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Emotional Balance

 

Human emotions are the most powerful weapons which have the power to control our mind and mindset. Emotions can make a person as well as break a person. When we are happy in life we just care don’t care about our emotions because they will always be good but when something happens in our life against our wish we just get occupied ourselves with unwanted emotions.

To stay balanced, happy, calm and peaceful in life just learn to control the emotional side of your personality. Emotional highs and lows are just normal things that everyone in this world have to cop up with but extreme emotions are something that kills us more than it does bad to other people around us.

Stay emotionally balanced. When emotional highs occur just remember that we have a wonderful life ahead which has the power to change our emotions and mindset.

Be Your Own Companion

 

      There will always be people in our life to support us, guide us, love us, and be there for us during happy as well as tough times but all this doesn’t mean that they will solve all the problems and hardships which we face in our life. People will be there for us but not all the time because we are an individual being who is capable and should be capable to face things that come across our way in life.

       Sometimes in life we will be our own and only companion. We cannot tell everything to the people around us rather we just have to fight our inner battles and for that, we just have to be strong enough. Being strong mentally is all about our mindset and the emotions which we often feel in our life.

       Be your own supporter, cheer leader, motivator and finally love yourself because no one in this world can love you the way you love yourself because we just love ourselves by knowing all our strengths and flaws. Life will turn out to be beautiful when we believe in ourselves and our individuality.

 

 

The Journey Of Life

 

      We human beings have a desire that our life should always be smooth and everything in life should go according to our will and wish. This is the most common mindset which many of us in this world think about but life never works in the way all the time. When we face certain hardships in life we just start to feel bad and when it crosses an extreme we just start to curse our life. Here, all this is the typical mindset of human beings who are unaware of the blessing called life.

      Our life is a journey that is filled with both happiness as well as hardships. Life is just a road which contains beautiful roads filled with mountains, trees, river, a waterfall and flowers which welcomes us but at the same time there be few heavy winds, damaged roads, different routes, and few other obstacles. A person who focuses on the obstacles will concentrate more on the problems in life. When a person focuses on the beauty of the life he just forgets to concentrate even on the obstacles which are near him.

      A human being should enjoy life but at the same time, he should be slow and steady towards everything when something goes wrong in life. Life is all about balance. When a person learns to balance the life he will just feel happy for everything which comes across his way. Look at life the way it is and never overthink as well as interpret it according to your mindset. Life is all about experiences, rewards, learning, evolving, and finally living it without regard.

 

 

Just Live And Love Your Life

 

      Human beings have the problem of worrying towards the issues which does not even exist in their life. We get worried about our tomorrow and about our future the most. We just think, what if this goes wrong? What if that happens and makes us weak?

      Most of our fears are just the assumption and imagination which exists within our mind. Just imagining bad scenarios and putting ourselves in a tough position will take away our peace of mind.

      Just don’t think about your tomorrow’s often because they have nothing to do with our today. Live your life to its fullest. Whatever is meant to happen in our life will definitely happen and they won’t wait or ask for our permission to get into our life. Go on with the flow of your life. If happiness touches your life just rejoice and celebrate. If problems hit you hard just feel that but stay calm because everything will pass and our life will surely get back to normal.

       A life well-lived is all about our mindset, behavior, attitude and character.

 

 

 

What We Focus and Observe Gets Transformed Into Our Thoughts

 

      The incidents which happen around us and to us have the power to control the things which happen within us. A small thing can just break us as well as make us. Our inner self is all about the things which happen to us and around us.

      No one in this world can accurately understand the thoughts which run within our mind. Sometimes, it will be hard for our mind to just process the random thoughts which run within our mind. Most of the times, our mind will wander around negative thoughts which will fill us with doubts and insecurities.

      The world of infinite thoughts which exist within our mind has the ultimate power to kindle our emotions. When we are filled with positive emotions such as happiness, gratitude, love and kindness then it just indicates that our mind is filled with good thoughts. On the other hand, if you are filled with negative emotions such as anger, envy and hatred then it indicates that our mind is filled with bad thoughts.

       Our thoughts are just the reflection of what we focus on, what we intake, what we observe and what we take seriously in life. So, make sure you just intake and think about the things which can add good thoughts and emotions to your life.