Attitude towards Reading

       American Essayist Henry David Thoreau tells that “Books are the treasured wealth of the world”. William Nicholson says that “We read to know that we are not alone”. Here, we can understand the glory of books as well as the beauty and importance of reading.

      Books should always be our integral part of life to make our life a fruitful one. Reading will always make us grow in all aspects of life. A reader can understand and love all the things around him better than the others. Through reading we can discover our own self.

       The benefits of reading are infinite but it is very hard to state the disadvantages of possessing the habit of reading because reading is such a precious quality. Reading will make us knowledgeable, wise and non-judgemental towards others. The most beautiful benefit of reading is that “we can understand our fellow humans better and we can able to think from their perspective”. Reading gives this most tremendous quality of accepting others in the way they are.

       All the holy scripts like Bhagavat Gita, Quran and Bible are the great examples which proves us that the books can change the life of human beings and books can work wonders in this world. So, if you are a reader continue to read more and if you are not a reader develop the habit of reading.

      Today, the ten days phase of rediscovery gets over but a important positive message for next 31 days is waiting for you all from tomorrow. July is going to be the most special month with so many beautiful and positive changes. 31 days of Positivity starts from tomorrow and I have left a clue for you all in today’s post.

 

 

Attitude of Gratitude for the Mother Earth

       We the human beings born on this earth are blessed with the abundant beauty of nature. The trees, mountains, sky, clouds, stars, moon and all the greenery around us. The immortal beauty of nature fills the humans with the sense of immense happiness. Man may create and invent many things but any of his invention will never be equal to the splendid beauty of nature.

      The shining and twinkling stars are the indicator which indicates that there is a spark of light within every individual born on this earth. The sun teaches us to have a strong faith towards everything we face in life because there is always a sunrise after a sunset. The sky tells us that we are the small speck of dust in this whole large world. The mountains indicates us to stay strong all the time irrespective of what we go through in life.

      The greeneries around us show that life is always engaging and pleasant. The mother earth and the nature holds so many hidden positive lessons for us to learn and adapt but it is up to an particular individual to find and follow the positive energy present in this universe.

       So, be grateful towards everything which is the part of this earth. We are the gifted ones to love and live in this world.

 

 

 

8. Attitude of Staying-Grounded

       We human beings during all phases of life we achieve, learn, lose and succeed. All this are the part of life. Everything will be there with us during certain time and will vanish after some time. Life is a strange wheel with its own ups and downs. We cannot even assume what will happen next.

       Life is unpredictable. One day we might be a successful person but the other day we might not be there in that same position. Everything will keep on changing. So, we should always stay grounded in our life because people around us are more important to us more than any material possessions.

       If we show our worst attitude to them during the good phase of our life that will turn back to us when we face those tragic or not so good times in our life. What we receive is always based on what we have given.

        We should always value people around us. We should not dump them thinking that we have everything in this world. The sad truth is that no one in this world have everything they want but we pretend to show that we have everything.

       We cannot replace human love with any materialistic things. So, be approachable and treat others modestly. Be an good human from within.

 

 

 

7. Attitude of Calmness

       Each and every human will have some breaking point in their life. During that time we tend to lose our calmness and the grip of which we are holding in our life. For, many people it’ll happen often in their life. For some people it will happen rarely when they reach that extreme emotional state but for only few people there is nothing called breaking point in their life. They will remain calm irrespective of what they face in life.

       Calmness is equal to the attitude of extreme happiness. The people who are calm can analyze themselves better than any other individuals around them. Practicing calmness is the attitude of the leader but it is not an easy task. When, we acquire the quality of calmness in our life that will lead us to make better decisions in whatever we do to improve ourselves.

       So, be calm even during the toughest situation in life because that will teach us many valuable lessons which will be so useful for us to understand everything which happens around us. Stay like a monk during all phases of life. The attitude of calmness will lead us in a better path. It  will improve our confidence and self-esteem.

 

6. Attitude of Gratitude

       We always expect and want only good things to happen for us in life. We are happy to have good parents, siblings, relatives and neighbors. If, someone in this list is bad and when that tends to disturbs our peace of mind we start to complain about everything in life. We humans complain often even for the small things which happens in our life. We feel sad when our mobile battery is low, when we don’t get the food which we love and even for the most silliest things than this which only a particular individual can figure out.

      Have you ever thanked for all the little happiness which you have in your life like good internet connectivity, a chair in which you have sat or the bed in which you are lying. Most of us could have never even considered the little things as a blessing because our mind is corrupted to look only at the flaws in life. We never even look at the blessings in life.

       To gain more and to lead a happy life we should practice the attitude of gratitude even for the little happiness which we hold in our life like the hands which hold our mobile phone and the fingers which helps to touch and use that mobile.

        A little gratitude towards everything in life will get multiplied into hundred times greater than the actual thing. Gratitude will make your life even more happier and fulfilling.

 

 

5. Attitude of Love

       We humans are born on this earth and are blessed with so many beautiful things and people around us. We are gifted with the trees, mountains, rivers and so many other natural phenomena around us. We are also blessed with so many people like our father, mother, brother and many other relationships. When we grow up in life we acquire knowledge and wisdom. We learn so many good qualities in our life but most of the time we forget and neglect to practice them in our life.

       The most important quality which we learn all through our life but we forget to practice is the quality of love and compassion. We always want others to love us and be kind towards us but we never look into ourselves. We never show love and compassion to othersbut we always expect and want others to be too good all the time.

       So, to live a happy and fulfilled life we should practice the best qualities such as love, kindness and compassion. We should approach our fellow human with our kindness but not with our arrogance and intellect because love has the tendency of lasting for lifetime. All the other qualities will vanish after certain time. Our knowledge, arrogance and wisdom may go off when we reach old age but love will always be there for us at any age. So, fill yourselves with love and spread love.

 

4. Attitude of Belief

       We humans love to achieve many things in life. We always like to succeed in whatever thing we do in our life. Our plan, our work and our destination will always based on that one ultimate goal called success or achievement.

       During our process and progress towards success we never believe in our path. We will have many unwanted doubts. At, some point in life we tend to develop our doubts more than the act of believing in  what happens in our life.

       Even, the scriptures and classics insists us to believe in the process of life but we humans always end up having so many questions and that affects our belief system totally. We have a great fear towards the unseen and un experienced things in life. The fear towards the unseen collapses our entire belief. We always assume something bad and consume more fear and negative energy. Rather, we should believe our ownself. The energy and aura which our mind generates will eventually transform and finally it will became our character. So, whatever happens in your life either good nor bad. Don’t let that feeling to collapse your belief system.

      Always believe that everything happens for something good.

3. Attitude of Helping Others

       We human beings love to lead a self-centered life. We think for ourselves and we think about ourselves. We never have any concern towards our fellow human. On, the other hand we help others to show up our power and knowledge.

      The act of helping for fame and not at all helping others are the two most unwanted quality which many humans possess in their life. Rather, we should help others during their hectic needs. We should choose things wisely while helping others because few people will ask for our help without even trying the task which was assigned for them. Few people will tell blame excuses and will approach us to help them but we should not help the individuals who are so much lethargic and not concerned in performing their own duties.

       We should help the ones who work hard. The act of real helping is putting all our sources and potentials to help others so we should choose a hard working individual who really needs someone’s help to achieve something in life. We should help the individuals who are starving to upgrade themselves in life. Choose Wisely and help nicely.

 

2. Attitude of Accepting Our Mistakes

       The most basic quality which every human should possess is the “Attitude of accepting our own mistakes” but we never do that often in our life because we are so much concerned about the image which we have created. We never like to lose that false image which we have created about ourselves.

      By not accepting our mistakes we tend to lose our true and real self and we try hard to portray ourselves as the good individual infront of everyone around us. There is no need for accepting our mistakes infront of everyone but we have to acknowledge and accept our mistakes to our ownself. We should be true to ourselves.

      When we hesitate to accept our mistake it starts to develop as our character. Later, even if we try so hard it will became even more harder to change our character. So, be true to yourself and correct yourself without giving any sorts of excuses. This fundamental quality of accepting and correcting our mistakes will make our life better.

      Be your own advocate and Magistrate.

1. Attitude of Positivity

      Human beings need few basic qualities and principles in life to groom themselves as a better individual. Here, the next ten days I am going to write about the ten basic qualities which will help you to groom yourself in a better way..

       The first and the most important quality is the “Attitude of Positivity”.  To approach life in a positive way one should have the courage to accept anything which life and situations throw towards us. We cannot expect the world to be kind towards us all time because everyone have different approach towards life. Sometimes, people will encourage us, few times people will laugh at us and many times people will pull our legs down but all this should not affect us and decide our approach towards life.

       Rather, we should remain positive during all the situations we face in life. That positive attitude will transform our life into an fruitful one. By being positive we tend to learn many other good qualities like kindness, compassion and love. So, be positive and spread positive energy.

      World needs Positive people not just lamenters and negative people.