Parents are the Treasures of our Life

      The greatest gift everyone receives on the day of our birth is two kind-hearted humans whom we can proudly call our father and mother. Without these two beautiful souls, our life could have never been the same as it was today. They are the back-bones, pillars of support, and the ones who will be with us not only during our ups but a great strength during our downs in life.

       Respect, love, care, and spent time with them because they are the two people in our life who ultimately cherish us all the time. As a child, we expect certain things from our parents during each stage and each phase of our life but they just love to be loved. The unconditional love which they shower upon us can never be replaced by anyone in this world. The way they shower the love might differ but the heartfelt love they have towards their children is unquestionable.

“Love your Parents the way how God loves you”

        Be there for them and with them because they are the treasures of our life. 

Happy December - Back to My Happiness

        Welcome December!!!

       December is all about gratitude, joy, merriment and happiness. Being grateful for each and everything we have in our life makes us much happier. Here, I am back to my world of happiness- blogging on this beautiful month which I personally love the most.

       When our heart and mind come together to celebrate something that is where the true purpose of our life resides. Writing for me is a soulful thing which I consider as a driving force to lead my life in a better as well as a positive way. Today’s writing is about “How to stay connected with our inner calling”.

        We human beings are filled with certain purposes and our inner calling. We are here on this earth for a certain reason and that is what we call our purpose. Finding our purpose and making that into our living makes our life a blissful one. We might either be happy, sad or filled with any other emotion at some point but at that time when we do something which we truly love our negative emotions will just get vanished. Suddenly, our mind and heart will be filled with happiness and gratitude.

        The human mind is designed in a particular way to respond to the beautiful things which make us happier. Find your inner calling – your so-called purpose, desire and the place of your happiness. Finally, stay true to your calling, improve yourself, extract the best out of yourself and believe that you can and you will. A small step daily towards your vision will lead you to great things. Love your life, and focus on the positive, bright and happier side of life to stay cheerful.

 

 

A Rich Heart

 

      Human life is all about expecting the unexpected during unpredictable times in life. Life will always have its twists and turns which will often turn out to be the best thing that happened in our life. The things, moments, and people who break you are making you and preparing you for a better life. When we possess a heart that loves people unconditionally and a mind which never judges others then life will be splendid.

      Finding faults, flaws, complaining about anything and everything just makes life tougher rather be the person who focuses on the beautiful and pleasant side of our journey. The basement of our character lies in our hearts so keep your inner self pure and happier. Look at people the way they are and stop judging others by comparing them with yourself and with the people you know. Each one is special in their own way. When our heart is pure and happier we will just find goodness in the character of the people who are around us.

       Love everyone around you wholeheartedly because each person we meet in our life is so special and consider everything in life as a secret blessing. Life will be happier and pleasant when our heart stays rich with all positive emotions and feelings. Stay a richer person at heart.

 

Each Morning Is A Blessing

 

      Each passing day in our life is a reminder that reminds us to stay happier irrespective of all the toughness we face. The sunrise, the sound of birds, the fresh air, happy plants, and smiling leaves just secretly tell us that each day is a brand new day. It is unnecessary to carry the weight of our yesterday to our today.

       Welcome each day with a happy heart and a bright smile on your face. Consider each day on this earth as a huge blessing because we are just visitors. Live a joyful life as well as soulful life because life is so precious which we often take for granted. Most of the time we just take all the special things for granted and regret them later but don’t ever do that with your life. Enjoy each day and never forget to smile. Stay positive by focusing on the good.

       The happiness which we carry within ourselves will get reflected in everything which we do in our life. Stay positive to stay happier.

Little Things Matter A Lot

 

      We human beings have the tendency of focusing more on the big pictures in life but true happiness just lies in the little things which are often left unnoticed. Small things matter a lot but we just require a happy soul and beautiful heart to celebrate those little things which hold true happiness.

       Starting from the cool breeze in the morning, the dewdrops in the leaves, sun playing hide seek with the clouds, a bud blooming into a flower, lovely melodies of birds, happy faces of the unknown people, a smile of our loved ones, a heart of joy for extremely no reason and soul which is filled with utmost gratitude for everything which we call as our own in life.

       Life is all about these little things which add immense beauty as well as happiness to the core of our hearts. Focus on the tiny happy moments in life to stay blissful and peaceful. Life is way beautiful than what we always expect as well as visualize it to be. It just takes a grateful heart to find this hidden beauty behind everything which we come across in life.

 

Today Is A Perfect Day

 

    There is a famous saying which tells, “Do your work but don’t expect the results”. Here, it is hard to practically follow this words in life because most of our dream and passion in our life are connected with our end results. Practice not to expect more rather learn to concentrate on your present and work on your today. When we learn to take care of our today then life will automatically take care of all our tomorrows. Even the tomorrows which are going to arrive in our life will reach us only in the form of today.

     Consider your today as the most important and special day of your life. Do things which will help you grow in life, keep yourself happy and fill yourself with positive vibes. Life is all about how well we live our today. Make your today a special day by loving it more and doing the best deeds which can improve your course of life.

Positive Thoughts Will Lift Our Life

 

      There will always be something positive in every negative situation which we face in our life. Everything which happens in our life will always hold something favourable to us. Here, a person who ultimately believes in the process of life will reap the fruits of happiness.

      Tough days in life are just the indicators which secretly tell us that life is taking us towards a successful and happy path. Don’t get too much worried when something goes wrong or something hurts you because life always makes people happier who stay calm even during their tough days.

      Calmness, patience, belief and positive thoughts have the power to lift us in life. Stay positive and just inhale positivity to keep your mind focused on all the good things in life.

The Best Legacy Is Just Being Good

 

      There are just enough people in this world spread negativity and bad vibes but there are only few people to genuinely spread positive vibes, happiness and kindness to all their fellow humans. Spread goodness because that will generate lots of happiness in our heart and it will add goodness to other people’s lives as well.

      Here, the biggest mistake many people unknowingly commit is that they lose their true values by comparing themselves with the people around them. During our young age we all of us could have been definitely good human beings and we could have felt unpleasant to hurt other people around us but with each passing day and the experience we could have become a different version of ourselves.

       When people hurt us we just try to do that back to them, when people hate us we pass on that hatred to the people who are loved the least. We just acquire all the unwanted qualities which will bring negative vibes into our life as well as to the lives of the people around us. Here, most of us practice this kind of quality without even knowing that we are hurting the other people around us. Be aware of yourself, the qualities you practice and also the vibes you transmit. Spread happiness and good vibes because the world is in need of good people who can stay happy as well as make others happy.

 

Food And Memories

 

      Food is always connected with something memorable as well as meaningful in life. A particular smell and taste of food have the power to bring many memorable memories which are deeply rooted within our hearts. Each one of us will have our own favourite dishes and snacks which we love the most. We will also follow a different combination of food which can sometimes look like a weird combination from another person’s eyes.

      Food is something unique, magical and ever boring thing which exists on this earth. Food has the power to bring people together, it unites people and it just makes them feel happy. Our favourite dishes which we love to eat will be associated with the memories of our childhood days. Those dishes will remind us about the person who first cooked that for us. It will remind us about the love we received from our near and dear ones in life.

      Ice-creams are always associated with summer holidays and vacations, samosa’s and vadas are associated with the evening tuitions which we attended during our school days, a plate of sambar rice will be associated with the love of a mother. Food is all about the memories which we hold in our heart. We just relive those magical and memorable days by eating that food which are associated with our memories.

 

Goodness Is Everywhere

 

     The people we meet, the situations we handle and the experiences we gain often teach us something meaningful in life but we human beings have the habit of forgetting things which are considered to be the most essential ingredient for life. Our mind often remembers and recalls all the unwanted stuff which are to be erased from our memory.

      To check out how your mind works just list down the names of the random people you know. Write something about each person in a sentence or two. If you write majority of good things about each person then it clearly indicates that your mind works in a positive and optimistic way. On the other hand, if your list is filled with all bad qualities about the majority of people in your list then it shows your own character and your ugly mind which revolves around unwanted stuff.

      Learn good and kind lessons even from the toughest experiences because practising good things will lift our mental strength. Everything which happens in our life will surely have something good to teach so learn those good values by focusing your mind and heart on good things.

 

 

 

Rules And Beliefs

 

      Each and every human being in this world will surely have their own set of beliefs towards everything which they own in their life. When such beliefs get broken or when we break the rules which we set for ourselves we will be filled with guilt. This is applicable to even the simplest things we do in our life. For example, when you are a person who is very pious and have the habit of praying daily. In this case, when your prayer gets affected for a few days or weeks due to some reason then you could definitely feel a kind of void within yourself. This kind of beliefs and rules which we follow to keep ourselves happy has the great power to keep us happy and positive most of the times in life.

      Life is beautiful when we follow the simplest routines to keep ourselves engaged and happy. Here, little rules are essential to keep us joyous. Living becomes meaningful, happier, peaceful and worthy when we love the things which we do in our life.

      Stick with your beliefs and connect yourself with your inner self to relish the true happiness of our existence.

 

Build Your Inner World

 

      Our life is the reflection of our thoughts and our thoughts are the reflection of what happens around us and within us. A person who loves to improve himself should concentrate more both on his inner world as well as the outer world. Our outer world is filled with people, their perspectives, their ideas and their thoughts but our inner world is just ruled by our own heart and mind. No one has the power to affect and make an effect in our inner world without our permission.

      To keep our inner world and our thoughts clear we should possess the quality of positive emotions and thoughts. When our mind dwells on all the bad things which happen around us then it will automatically get accustomed to negative thoughts. To make our inner world a happy place we should read good books and listen to things that can make a positive impact inside us.

      Everyone in this world is individual and unique so our uniqueness should be reflected in our thoughts and emotions which we feel and transmit to other people around us.

 

 

 

Do Good And Be Good

 

       People say, we always receive back what we give but many people fail to believe this fact. The real truth behind this particular statement is “When we do good deeds we receive back goodness in return but when we do bad deeds we receive back that badness”. For our every action we will receive back a reaction from this universe which we have to just accept and move on. We cannot decide what we receive but we can surely decide what we can give. Giving is all about our choice when our choices are good and healthy then life will bless us with just happiness. Never complain. When we do good things life will never lead us to the path of worry.

       The common problem with most people is they fail to believe that the goodness and badness which we give out will come back to us. The people who are good think that they receive not so good things in life even after being good to others around them. On the other hand, the people who do unacceptable things to others think that it is normal to be bad and there is nothing to get worried about their behaviour. Here, our actions are just reflections of the thoughts that arise in our mind.

       When we give a bowl of wheat to the person who is in need we will receive back a loaf of bread during the time of our need but many of us just think about that bowl of wheat which we have given and forget the loaf of bread which we have received. What we do will get back to us in a better way but not in the same way. A person who understands this concept will never ever complain about anything because they will just know how this world works. Being good is all about being true to our existence and showing gratitude towards our creator.

 

 

Happy Practices

 

“Don’t ever miss the best version of yourself which you love the most”

      Each and every human being in this world will surely love something about themselves in which their happiness might reside. It might be a quality, a practice or it might be anything which helps a person to improve themselves in a good way. We might think that we should not lose that particular quality of ourselves at any point in life. Sometimes we will make conscious efforts to follow them in life but sometimes we might do that without proper conscious thought.

      Here, whenever we fail to follow such things which we think can bring happiness into our lives then we will definitely get stuck. That feeling of stuck will bring lots of unwanted emotions like anger, frustration and lack of peace in our mind.

       Whenever you feel that you are missing out on something in your life then try and find out what can actually, fill that void that has occurred within us. Fill that void by practising that one particular thing that can add value to your life as well as fill that void permanently.

       Few people might like gardening and they might love plants but due to some reason they could not able to maintain their garden properly then that could create a mental dilemma in their mind. Such kind of dilemma might affect us deeply so never allow any of your healthy practice to end with a full stop rather continue them with wise commas.

 

 

 

Keep Doing Good Without Expecting

 

      Being a good human from the heart is the most appreciable quality but those good people are the ones who are tested by life. When we try to be good and when we practice good deeds we tend to face many challenges. The situations we face might be against us, the people whom we love and respect will do just the opposite things to us. It is difficult to stay good when we face infinite challenges and tough times.

       At some point in life, we might question ourselves that “What we have earned just by being a good person?” there will be so many other questions that will arise in our mind but the only answer to all our questions is, “Staying good from the heart should not be the choice we make rather it should be the quality – a lifestyle which we should follow”.

       Don’t fill up yourself with all the negative thoughts like – people around us are bad and selfish rather be yourself and be good. Goodness is not the quality which we practice to impress others rather it is a practice which we should follow to fall in love with ourselves.

Introverts

       Introverts are the people who feel hard to mingle with others, and they feel that they are enough for themselves. They love solitude more than being in the company of the others around them. Introverts become unhappy in life when their peace gets affected. They love silence, nature, books, plants and trees.

       Privacy is something they consider as a special gift which they owe more than anything which is present around them. Introverts are great thinkers who think about all random things about them and around them. They will be more self-centred and sometimes selfish in their behaviour. The major problem with introverts is they fail to listen more because they will be filled with their own thoughts all the time.

       Being an introvert is all about setting boundaries for ourselves and living within them, but one day those boundaries might require a break. During such times they will get frustrated about anything and everything around them. Don’t be too much introverted because they might lead you to stress and anxiety. Connect with people even for a limited time to know more about the world as well as to improve your love towards living.

 

Understanding

 

       No one in this world can understand the qualities and behavior of his fellow humans completely because that is impossible. On the other hand no one in this world will understand us completely because that too is definitely impossible. If a person says that they understand you better it shows their love and affection towards you but if a person says that they understand you completely then they are trying to fake you.

       We human beings evolve, emerge and become the newer version of ourselves with each passing day in our life. We grow, we change, our character differs, the qualities we practice change and the way we understand and accept things keeps on changing with each passing phase in our life. Here, a person who in undergoing the process of change each day will add up something new into their life so it will be hard for that person to even understand themselves completely. In this scenario, it will be hard for the people around us to understand us completely and if you expect others to understand you then it’ll always end up in vain.

       Never expect that people around you should understand the nook and corner of your character and never try to understand others completely because both this acts are just impossible. Be you and change the qualities which are required to be changed. Don’t stress yourself for not understanding others and never expect others to understand you because a happy living resides in going on with the flow.

 

 

Childhood Memories Will Always Linger In Our Heart

 

         Even after growing up in life everyone will always reminiscence the old times especially our childhood days most often in our life. We love that innocence which we carried within ourselves, the excitement which was present their during each moment when we experienced something new for the first time, the ever engaging mind and heart full of childish emotions and innocence.

         When we are a child we could have often thought of growing up in life but after growing up we could have at least thought of going back to our childhood days even for one single time. After growing up we will automatically become responsible, people will treat us as matured beings, we cannot behave in the same way once we were during our young days. Life won’t be the same but the difference will also be new and adventures but in the corner of our heart we will miss our childhood days and that innocent us who have stayed curious for even the simplest things.

         We might have heard and read that we should not lose our innocence even after growing up in life but practically it is toughest to follow because our mind and heart could have become matured enough to stop us from doing such innocent activities. At the end of the day we can just relish and relive those beautiful incidents and memories in our heart. That beautiful, happy, innocent, charming, childish and excited phase of our life will always live with us and keep us happy for living those days.

 

 

Few Things In Life Is A Chioce But Choose Wisely

 

      The people we meet in our life, the people who we are close to us in life, the books we read, the movies we watch and the television programs we watch shapes our thought and that eventually gets transferred into our mindset. The people, things and materials which we are closely associated with makes a great impact in everything we do in our life. A person’s individuality is designed based on all this things which they get influenced by in life.

       We cannot choose everything in life but few things comes with options and so we can choose them according to our will and wish. When you are granted with options choose things which can shape you as an individual. Surround yourself with all good people who will help you to become the better person not just for today but for your future as well.

       We can choose our friends, we can choose with whom we can spend most of our time with, we can choose good books and we can choose things which are present around us with options. Take charge of yourself and do good things to yourself by choosing the best options available in your list.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Privacy Is Power

 

       Privacy is something important to each and every human being who exists in this earth. When we fail to spend a quality time with ourselves and our thoughts we just get stuck somewhere. When we get stuck that eventually reflects in the form of anger and frustration. Never allow yourself to feel that kind of anger in life because that will destroy all your good thoughts and vibes.

        Spend time with yourself. Do things which you love and don’t always occupy yourself with the thoughts of other people around you. When we focus on the others we just lose our individuality and identity. Soon we will become that person who we never wanted to be.

        Individuality is something unique and we can develop that by spending more time with ourselves. Listen to others but listen to your own thoughts as well. Everyone’s thoughts and beliefs might not match with you so listen and accept the ones which match with you but on the other hand just evaporate the thoughts which does’nt match with your belief. Most importantly have standard and quality thoughts which will be useful for your growth.