Happy Father's Day

      There will always be one special person in everyone’s life who we love, care for, adore and respect the most. That particular person might differ in each one’s life but for most of the girls that special person will be their father. The word father might bring a bright smile to their face and also so many beautiful emotions inside them. This particular post of mine is dedicated to my loving father – My Hero.

      A beautiful moment in every girl’s life is when someone says that you look like your father but on the other hand the happiest moment is when someone says that you behave in the same way as your father does. My father is a person who I just look up to all the time for the values he practices, the patience he holds and most importantly the beautiful spiritual side of his character which is calm and composed all the time.

      He has been my inspiration and will be my inspiration all throughout my lifetime. A father is always his daughter’s hero and my dad is my superhero who just makes me feel loved and through his love I understood how beautiful it is to be loved. Each and every girl’s life will change after her marriage but the only thing which remains unchanged will be the love which she has for her father. No one in this world can replace the place of a dad in a girl’s life.

       Putting forth my thoughts into words seems difficult this time because emotions cannot be expressed in words that easier. Finally, Thank you for being you and making me believe in myself all the time when I face my lows.

       Love you and Miss you Appa.

       Happy Father’s Day….

 

 

 

Family - Life Begins And Love Never Ends

 

      Family is something that is so special to each one of us in this universe because everyone in the family will always care for us more than we take care of ourselves in life. An individual is nothing without the support and love of the family to which he belongs.

       Family is a huge blessing to each one of us but we just sometimes take them for granted. Here, it is our responsibility to Care for the people who care for you, love the ones who love and most importantly be there for the people in your family irrespective of all the tough days and situations which you have come across.

       Life is hard to lead without human ties and bonding. We are just interconnected with an unseen thread that unites us with love and care. Stay grateful for each and every person whom you have in your life. 

Parent - Child Relationship

 

       There is no replacements or choices for choosing few relationships in life. A parent cannot choose their biological children and anyone in this world cannot choose their parents rather both this relationships are just gifts which we are gifted with in this particular lifetime. A person should not and cannot complaint that they could have had a better parent in their life. On the other hand a parent should not complaint that they could have had a better child than their own children.

        We human beings don’t have the power towards controlling the uncontrollable things in life. If we run behind the things which we cannot have in our life there will always be a huge void within us which cannot be filled at any point in our life. After, some point that void will get transformed into guilt. At the end the guilt we carry within ourselves will never leave us until our last breathe.

        Be a person who can love your parents unconditionally without hurting them at any point in life and at the same time be a good parent to your children. Both this relationships are the gifts of god and nature. When you get worried about holding those relationships in life then life will never bless you with anything which you love. Be a kind child and also be a loving parent.

 

 

Take Up Responsibility Towards Your Life

 

       How many hours we spent each day to improve ourselves?

       This is the biggest question which each one of us in this world should ask to ourselves on daily basis. Existing is different from living. To live our life we should do something daily to upgrade ourselves. It might even be the simplest things like learning a new concept, practicing good qualities, reading few pages of the book which lies in our shelves for the long time, helping others and it might be anything which has the power to improve ourself and also others around us.

        Have leisure time but don’t spend your whole day leisurely. In this lockdown days many of us are in our home. We just spend our whole day for entertainment like scrolling our social media, watching television, getting up very late and all other things which just sucks our time. One day will get continued to one week and it will get converted into months. At the end we will end up being lazily lazy.

        When laziness rules our life we become a person who does not have any control over ourselves. Mostly, the children in the house are being lazy now-a-days. They spend their time doing nothing worthy but they are not aware of the importance of learning and upgrading themselves. So, the elder ones in the family should guide them in the right path. Initially, it will be hard to make the children to follow a healthy routine but practice will set things right. The biggest problem everyone faces in each house is - the elder ones in the family are not in the position to advice the younger ones because they too are in the position to change themselves to be in the place to guide the children in the house.

         The elder ones in the family should be the role model for all the younger ones. During 90’s and early 2000’s all the grandparents in the families will be a strict disciplinarian and they too will be proper, punctual and will have healthy routines. Now, in the modern world the elders fail to follow that kind of strict discipline which were once a part of our families. So, be a responsible elder.

 

Families Are The Compass That Guide Us

 

         We human beings learn, evolve and try to become the better individual. A normal person who tries to develop himself will learn more about the things which interest him, the things which can help him to grow and the things which can make his life better. We learn and we know that learning is all about growing.

          The major part of our growth in life lies in the stories we hear from the elder ones especially the elder ones in our family. We learn all the greatest life lessons by hearing their experience and the incidents which happened in their life. Our grandparents and parents are the best guiding lights who can help us to view the world from a wider perspective. Our fears, insecurities, worries and few unknown answers about life will vanish off when we speak with them about the life which they have experienced.

          You may learn from the greatest teachers in the world, you might read the best books in the world, you might even be guided by the best mentors in the world but all this will surely be not equal to the life lessons which you learn from the elder ones in your family. They will have a lot of things to share but we should have ears to listen to their valuable words which are precious than anything in this world.

          To be confident, happy, bold and strong in life we should lend our ears to the people who are closely and deeply connected with us through blood. Few things in life can only be taught by those people whom we call as our own in this big beautiful world.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Learn From Children

 

     We human beings learn many valuable lessons in life through reading more books, through the situations we face, through the experiences we gain. In some way life teaches us many valuable lessons which help us to become a better individual. At few times, the greatest life lessons are taught to us by the children who are younger to us in age and experience. When we talk with small kids we will understand life better and they have the power to make us believe in the process of life. They will possess an ultimate self-confidence and belief in themselves which will make us realize that we human beings are the achievers by birth.

     The amount of self-belief which the young kids have will sometimes make us feel jealous about growing old. Children’s are the indicators who prove that we humans are strong, confident, positive and emotional by birth. Everything which we try to develop in the process of our life is already the gifts which are hidden deep within us and our only duty is to find that innate positive things and make our life beautiful.

      When you feel extremely happy or extremely sad talk with the children and refresh your thoughts and belief towards life. Stay grounded and learn from the little ones.

 

Love The Older Ones In Your Family

 

     To love and being loved is one of the greatest feeling which we can make a human being extremely happy. We will love only few people in our life and they will always remain close to our hearts. It starts from our mother and ends with grandchildren. A person’s first love will always be their mother and it will remain special and evergreen due to the mutual bond we share. Next, a person many love so many people who are part of their life from their father, siblings, aunts, uncles, partner, children and finally it comes to an end with grandchildren.

     The bond between the grandparents and grandchildren will remain special all the time. Both grandparents and the grandchildren will be child at heart. When an person grow old in life we gain so much maturity and at certain point in life that maturity will get transformed into love.

      Respect and love your grandparents because they are older human with childlike innocence in heart. Love those grown up children like you love yourself and the way you deserve to be loved.

New Year's Eve - Thanksgiving

 

  Many people in the world are waiting for the birth of the New Year- 2021. Many never even try to look back at the present year 2020 because of the unexpected twists and turns which happened this year due to the pandemic. This year was quite tough for so many people in so many ways but we just have to accept things because that is the reality of life. The word “Positive” itself got a negative meaning this year. The best line which can describe this year is “Expect the Unexpected and learn to accept the changes”.

     New Year’s Eve will always be the happy day and people will look back and thank god for all the blessings which they have received all throughout the whole year. Today, when we look back at 2020 we can be thankful to god for so many reasons. One of the important reason is just being alive in this world amidst all the tough days we have faced.

     This year had made the human bonding closer and it has made us realize the human side of our character. This year has taught us the value of life, love, family, friends and all the beautiful bonding we have with all our fellow humans. This is the year of realization and huge learning. This year has made us smile for millions of small things which has happened in our life like meeting our friends after so many days, kissing our grandparents after months, hugging our relatives with warmth. We can just feel that all the tiny things which reminded normal before pandemic turned out to be the happiest memories and moments.

     Life gave us our own space to think about the things which we never thought about and it was the greatest year of self-realization in so many ways. We discovered our own interests, likes and dislikes. The whole of humanity have become much closer due to this pandemic. We started to love people and approach them with care and concern.  Life revised its syllabus and framed many beautiful rules like protecting ourselves with mask of our face, less pollution on the roads, spending more time with our near and dear ones and most importantly life made us realize the value of our existence.

     What a beautiful year it has been with so many good lessons. Cherish this beautiful year and never feel bad about anything which you don’t have any control over.

Life is Love

   

Respect The People Who Love You

 

     When someone asks us do we love our dad more or our mom more, few will choose their dad and few will choose their mother. Everyone will have our personal favourites in our life. Starting from our parents to each and everyone we meet in our life. We show more concern and care towards the people whom we love the most. It is not the biggest sin rather it is natural to show more love towards the people we love in our life. On the other hand, we forget and sometimes ignore the people who love us. When our most loving friend hurts us we feel sad and dejected but we never think about hurting the people who love us.

     We respect the love which we show towards other but most of the times we never even care about the people who genuinely care towards us. Never hurt the person who loves you. It might even be our grand parent. Grandparents will love their grandchildren so much but the grandchildren’s will never care about that and they will take them for granted in life. Never do this kind of things which will hurt the person who just loves you. Respect their care and concern towards you and be kind towards them.

     When we get something which is so much valuable and that comes free of cost we just try to neglect that without understanding the value of it. Love the ones who love you and show your concern towards them. Show a little care and a small amount of love towards the people who loves you and be a reason behind their happiness.

Life Is A Beautiful Process

 

     Life teaches us many innumerable lessons all throughout our lifetime. It makes the weakest individuals much stronger, it transforms a short-tempered person into a much calmer person, it makes the wicked person wise. Life transforms an individual into various dimensions which they could have not even thought about. Life remains miraculous in many ways. The journey of life makes a human being understand the value of the people around them. Age teaches us many valuable lessons, maturity makes us understand things better, hardship we face make us realize the real beauty of life.

     Life makes us stronger, wiser, responsible, kind and most importantly it makes us calmer. Each phase of life makes us realize many things which is unknown to us. We learn and evolve into a better person each day. We became much kinder with each passing year in our life. We learn to respect the love of other and we also learn to throw away all our anger. Just turn back and look at the path you have crossed and feel the difference. There will be good days and there will also be few bad days but at the end everything in life is beautiful in some way.

      I always believe that life seems to be longer but the same time life is a short span of time which seems to move faster than we think. So, be the person who can bring smile on others face, be the person who can forgive and forget the mistake of other people as you forgive your ownself for the mistakes you did in your past. Spread love and erase all your hatred towards everything which bothers you. At the end, be a human with all positive feelings and emotions which will help you to lead a better life with a happy smile on your face.

The Power Of Healing

 

    We can change ourselves and can transform our life into a better one but few things in life cannot be changed in a fraction of second or in an hour rather it takes an ample amount of time to understand and accept things in life. Time is the best medicine, healer, teacher and a philosopher. Time will make us realize our own mistakes and will help us to think from the other person’s perspective.

     The duration of that time period might be long but there is no other best way to heal something in life. Whenever, something bothers  you don’t think about that too much rather understand the power of time and remain calm. The anger which we hold today will surely get reduced tomorrow and it will even vanish off after so many tomorrow’s. The people around us are humans just as who we are so flaws are inevitable and problems are unavoidable but the grudges can be broken. We are given ample time to rewrite our story at any point in time of our life.

     Life is all about letting go of the things which worries you and letting in all the positive human emotions. Ultimately, we are just the visitors and our stories might get registered but the soul will depart one day, only our existence will be remembered.  At the end of the day we are mortal beings trying to create a immortal story in all possible ways.

The Greatest Gift

     We human beings can choose few things in life but many thing in life remains to be a gift and when cannot choose them rather they will choose us to be a part of itself. We can choose our education, job, career and the things we buy like car, house and clothes. On the other hand, we cannot choose our family – our father, mother, siblings, relatives and children. They all are the god given gift to us and so we consider all them so special than the things we choose in our life. Gifted things remain unchangeable but the things we choose can be changed and so we often suffer to choose right things in life.

      Human beings are special especially the people whom we are related to always hold a special place in our heart as well as in our life. They are irreplaceable and if you are a person who is gifted with a loving family then you are the most special human being because many people suffer in life with this irreplaceable gifts. If you are happy and satisfied with those people then you are the special person whom god loves so much. Most of the people underestimate or never estimate the true value of the relationships we have with the members in our family rather we focus on the faults and flaws. Never live your life lethargically by undervaluing the love of your family rather cherish and make it special.

       If you have people in your life to hug you during your happy days and to weep your tears during your sad days then that is the biggest gift which you cannot earn by any worldly things. Understand and acknowledge the true facts about our existence. Our life is much more blessed than we think.