Immense Emotion

      Sometimes it is just hard to control our own emotions and feelings. Everything in life can be understood and accepted but emotions are such a powerful weapon which cannot be controlled. Being an emotional individual is something very much hard to handle. Filling up ourselves with emotions makes us weak for just no reason.

       Be an emotional being but not too much emotional. Emotion is different from being so much emotional towards everything which we have in our life. Learn to control your emotions but it is hard during the initial stages. Emotions make us as well as break us. Too much of anything is good for nothing. The best way to control our emotions is to just spend with our own selves and our thoughts and feelings. 

Mind and Heart

 

       Life is the combination of good as well as not so good days. Every day is just the part of our life. Sometimes, we can try and change our mindset but during certain times it is hard to convince our mind and make it focus on the good things. Here, during those tough days we should not force to bring back our mind into the normal state because when we do such things our mind will think more about that particular thing which bothers us.

        Rather, we can give our mind a kind of hope and confidence that this phase of toughness will end soon. Staying positive is different from forcing to be positive all the time. Our mind needs certain time to process few things and we just have to give that time to dwell in its own thoughts. To keep our mind and thoughts under our control at first we should go by its way to know about itself. When we understand our mind and the thoughts which it often thinks then we can tune our mind towards good things.

         Our mind is all about the thoughts which run within it and to have a control over our thoughts we should also have a control over our heart. Our thoughts are just the reflection of the things which runs within our heart. Mind, thoughts, heart and emotions are just interconnected with each other. If one gets happy other will also be happy and cheerful but when one gets dull others will also become unhappy.

 

 

Emotions

 

       Human emotions are the most powerful weapons which have the ultimate power to create and destroy people. It is hard to lead a life which is truly emotional free. We may pretend that we are less emotional but within our hearts emotions will always be alive. Here, everything in life is all about the choices we make but the emotions we go through cannot be chosen rather they are to be accepted.

       A person who learns and practice to accept their emotions have the power to choose the emotions. So, it is essential to first accept the emotions which we feel. There is no one in this world who can say that they are emotional free or emotionless humans. Emotions have the power to transmit good vibes too. Emotions such as happiness, kindness, love and compassion have the power to make our fellow humans happy.

      Whatever emotions we go through in life will be passed on to the people around us and also to the people who are with us. Here, we should be careful about our emotional well being. Care for yourself and care your emotions too. Take care of the emotions in the same way to care for the people who you love the most in your life.

 

 

 

Genuine Goodness

 

       Being truly genuine and good from heart is one of the rarest qualities which only few people in this world practice. People who try to prove themselves as a good individual are the ones who practice goodness to gain appreciation but the individuals who are really good from their hearts will never even try to prove themselves as the good and genuine ones. Strive for that kind of attitude and heart. Being good from our heart is one of the best gifts which we can gift to ourselves.

       Goodness is all about thinking good thoughts, doing good things, behaving good and speaking good things. Never allow any kind of negative thoughts or emotions to enter into your mind because a small amount of negativity inside our mind will create a great negative impact in everything you do, speak and behave.

        A heart which is genuine and a mind which is good are our great and incomparable asset. The people around us many not think highly about us, people may even talk badly about us, people might even ill treat us, people may not respect us, people may not love us and ultimately people may not recognize our goodness but all this should not stop us from being a good individual. A genuine goodness is the quality of divine.

        We cannot and should not except that others should also be good to show our goodness to the world. Being good is not about showing up to others about our greatness rather it is a simple and basic thing which adds good values to our life. When you are genuinely becoming a good individual you will stop complaining about anything and everything which happens to you and around you. This quality is a reminder which indicates us that we are moving towards a great life.

        Live your life by practicing genuine goodness and positivity.

Let Life Fall In Love With You

 

     Each and every human being is different from one another in this world. Each one of us is different in some way and at times we feel happy about our individuality when someone appreciates us for being differently good. We love to hear that we are good but we never love to hear the bad qualities which we constantly follow rather we ignore them by thinking about the good qualities we possess. Here, the biggest problem is we never care about our unwanted qualities but on the other hand we always notice the bad qualities of the individuals around us. We never love to be addressed by our flaws but we are very keen in finding out the flaws of others.

     Be a human being who can accept your own flaws and have a heart to change the not so good qualities you practice in life. Be a person who looks at all the positive qualities of the individuals around you and never possess the eyes which notice the negatives of the other people. Accept your flaws and accept the good character of the people around you because this is best way to grow in life.

     A mind which is trained to focus on the negatives will never get satisfied about anything. So, focus your mind only on the good things till it becomes your character. Once, the good things which you practice in life becomes your character your life will become yet beautiful in so many innumerable ways. Let life fall in love with your good heart and may the people around you be impressed by the beautiful soul you possess.

 

 

Create Happy Memories

 

     Every human being in this world will have the habit of looking back at the path which they have come across in life. When we look back at our own life we think about the memories which we have created during our journey. Memories will always bring back mixed emotions which are hard to describe rather they can only be felt. Few incidents from our past will make our hearts smile and few scenes will make us unhappy but at the end of the day all our memories make our life beautiful.

     When we think back about the memories we have created we will fell all good as well as few bad emotions. Here, calculate the amount of good as well the bad memories you have created in your life. If the good memories are highest in number then you have lived a life which is splendid and beautiful but on the other hand when your bad memories are larger in number then understand that your life have never had a proper meaning.

      Don’t be a person who accumulates lots of unhappy memories in life rather be a creator of all good moments in life. When something negative comes your way just ignore that and move on with a smile on your face because when we dwell on something bad it will automatically become a part of our life. Distance yourself from the things which does not bring happiness into your life. Focus on all positive emotions so that life and your journey will be filled with happiness, wonder and joy.

 

 

 

Kindness = Godliness

 

     We human beings acquire many good qualities to make our life a more beautiful one but one of the best qualities which make us a wonderful human being is the “act of kindness”. We think that “Cleanliness is equal to godliness” but I believe that “Kindness is equal to godliness”. A human heart which does not possess the quality of kindness loses the beauty of life. A kind heart finds goodness everywhere. The kind-hearted human being loves all the good things around them and they just ignore all the negativity.

     The kind person may seem be an biased individual from everyone’s point of view and the people around them may think that the person is not loyal. But, a kind hearted human being will never even try to prove themselves as the kind person rather they will just be kind. Accusing others, telling that they are wrong, pointing that they are unfair is the easiest task which everyone can easily do but understanding the unfair nature of others and accepting that and being kind to them is the quality of divine.

      Be a kind human being and just love everyone around you. Life becomes beautiful when your heart is filled with love and kindness. Respect the people who are kind towards you irrespective whatever you do to them.

The Most Contagious Positive Emotion

 

     We human beings are the great lovers of all positive emotions. The ultimate goal of everyone’s life is to stay happy. To be happy in life we should practice few things which will add beauty to our living. One among them is to carry a spark of smile on our face all the time irrespective of all good and tough days we face in life. Smile is a contagious emotion which will make us happy as well as the person before us happier.

     Greet everyone with a beautiful smile on your face and carry that smile as your own asset because a smiling face can attract millions of hearts. A person who smiles can avoid all the negativity around them and can make the atmosphere more positive. When you read this, few faces will flash in your mind to remind you about the beautiful people in your life who make everything look perfect just through their smile. Be that kind of individual who can gift people a positive vibe just through your smile.  

     A beautiful curve which attracts human beings adds a greater value to our own life. A smile can turn your enemies into your friends, your haters into your admirers and most importantly it will make people remember you for a long time.  

Heart And Mind

 

     Most of the times we human beings follow what our mind says but on the other hand our heart will say something which we often neglect. Our mind make plans, strategize things, differentiates between which is good and which is bad in life. Human mind is always logical, thinks of accuracy and perfection but human heart is just made of all emotions which adds eternal beauty to our existence. Heart is something which is filled with extreme emotions like love, kindness, compassion, happiness and so many other beautiful emotions.

     We can read, learn and study so many things to develop our knowledge which is connected with our mind but it is hard to learn something which directly reaches our hearts. Our heart is created and designed in the way to respond to the human emotions and feelings. So, heart never learns or even unlearns anything rather by birth it is filled with the things which is essential to the human beings. To stay happy in life never do anything to change your heart rather respond to the beautiful emotions of your heart.

     Follow your mind but not all the time because the ideas and thoughts which are born in mind will sometimes hurt us as well the people around us. Whereas, our hearts will know the emotion and feelings of the people around us. Our heart can easily connect with others and it will help us to look at the people around us with the eyes of love and kindness. Never do anything to change your heart because it is beautiful in its own way.

 

 

 

Anger - The Worst Enemy

 

     The qualities we possess get transformed into our character. Our character turns out to be our identity. So, to have a better identity we should have good character and that good character comes from the best qualities we possess in our life. It is important to develop good qualities in life to become a good human being. A person will always be a mixture of both good and some bad qualities. When we try to improve ourselves we should focus on our good qualities and make them even better. On the other had we should overcome all the bad qualities which restricts us from becoming the best version of ourselves.

     One of the major negative quality which slowly destroys all our good traits is our anger. Anger destroys the person who gets angry more than it hurts the individual who is in front of them. At some point in life our anger overlaps all our good and best qualities and it projects us as a very bad individual. So, whenever you get angry just think of the situation and the person who you are angry towards and analyse whether it is worthy to show our emotion. Don’t make a negative quality as your strongest emotion rather slowly get rid of it and become a better person.

     Never get angry for the silly reasons in life rather try and control your anger. Life becomes easy when you approach it with all happy and good qualities. Love your life and make it beautiful with all best qualities.

New Year's Eve - Thanksgiving

 

  Many people in the world are waiting for the birth of the New Year- 2021. Many never even try to look back at the present year 2020 because of the unexpected twists and turns which happened this year due to the pandemic. This year was quite tough for so many people in so many ways but we just have to accept things because that is the reality of life. The word “Positive” itself got a negative meaning this year. The best line which can describe this year is “Expect the Unexpected and learn to accept the changes”.

     New Year’s Eve will always be the happy day and people will look back and thank god for all the blessings which they have received all throughout the whole year. Today, when we look back at 2020 we can be thankful to god for so many reasons. One of the important reason is just being alive in this world amidst all the tough days we have faced.

     This year had made the human bonding closer and it has made us realize the human side of our character. This year has taught us the value of life, love, family, friends and all the beautiful bonding we have with all our fellow humans. This is the year of realization and huge learning. This year has made us smile for millions of small things which has happened in our life like meeting our friends after so many days, kissing our grandparents after months, hugging our relatives with warmth. We can just feel that all the tiny things which reminded normal before pandemic turned out to be the happiest memories and moments.

     Life gave us our own space to think about the things which we never thought about and it was the greatest year of self-realization in so many ways. We discovered our own interests, likes and dislikes. The whole of humanity have become much closer due to this pandemic. We started to love people and approach them with care and concern.  Life revised its syllabus and framed many beautiful rules like protecting ourselves with mask of our face, less pollution on the roads, spending more time with our near and dear ones and most importantly life made us realize the value of our existence.

     What a beautiful year it has been with so many good lessons. Cherish this beautiful year and never feel bad about anything which you don’t have any control over.

Life is Love

   

Respect The People Who Love You

 

     When someone asks us do we love our dad more or our mom more, few will choose their dad and few will choose their mother. Everyone will have our personal favourites in our life. Starting from our parents to each and everyone we meet in our life. We show more concern and care towards the people whom we love the most. It is not the biggest sin rather it is natural to show more love towards the people we love in our life. On the other hand, we forget and sometimes ignore the people who love us. When our most loving friend hurts us we feel sad and dejected but we never think about hurting the people who love us.

     We respect the love which we show towards other but most of the times we never even care about the people who genuinely care towards us. Never hurt the person who loves you. It might even be our grand parent. Grandparents will love their grandchildren so much but the grandchildren’s will never care about that and they will take them for granted in life. Never do this kind of things which will hurt the person who just loves you. Respect their care and concern towards you and be kind towards them.

     When we get something which is so much valuable and that comes free of cost we just try to neglect that without understanding the value of it. Love the ones who love you and show your concern towards them. Show a little care and a small amount of love towards the people who loves you and be a reason behind their happiness.

Life Is A Beautiful Process

 

     Life teaches us many innumerable lessons all throughout our lifetime. It makes the weakest individuals much stronger, it transforms a short-tempered person into a much calmer person, it makes the wicked person wise. Life transforms an individual into various dimensions which they could have not even thought about. Life remains miraculous in many ways. The journey of life makes a human being understand the value of the people around them. Age teaches us many valuable lessons, maturity makes us understand things better, hardship we face make us realize the real beauty of life.

     Life makes us stronger, wiser, responsible, kind and most importantly it makes us calmer. Each phase of life makes us realize many things which is unknown to us. We learn and evolve into a better person each day. We became much kinder with each passing year in our life. We learn to respect the love of other and we also learn to throw away all our anger. Just turn back and look at the path you have crossed and feel the difference. There will be good days and there will also be few bad days but at the end everything in life is beautiful in some way.

      I always believe that life seems to be longer but the same time life is a short span of time which seems to move faster than we think. So, be the person who can bring smile on others face, be the person who can forgive and forget the mistake of other people as you forgive your ownself for the mistakes you did in your past. Spread love and erase all your hatred towards everything which bothers you. At the end, be a human with all positive feelings and emotions which will help you to lead a better life with a happy smile on your face.

The Power Of Healing

 

    We can change ourselves and can transform our life into a better one but few things in life cannot be changed in a fraction of second or in an hour rather it takes an ample amount of time to understand and accept things in life. Time is the best medicine, healer, teacher and a philosopher. Time will make us realize our own mistakes and will help us to think from the other person’s perspective.

     The duration of that time period might be long but there is no other best way to heal something in life. Whenever, something bothers  you don’t think about that too much rather understand the power of time and remain calm. The anger which we hold today will surely get reduced tomorrow and it will even vanish off after so many tomorrow’s. The people around us are humans just as who we are so flaws are inevitable and problems are unavoidable but the grudges can be broken. We are given ample time to rewrite our story at any point in time of our life.

     Life is all about letting go of the things which worries you and letting in all the positive human emotions. Ultimately, we are just the visitors and our stories might get registered but the soul will depart one day, only our existence will be remembered.  At the end of the day we are mortal beings trying to create a immortal story in all possible ways.

Accept All The Versions of The People You Love

 

     We know and believe that we human beings are different. Each one in this world is different and everyone has uniqueness but have we ever thought about the different version which lies within ourselves. An individual has a multiple version of themselves which resides within them. We act, react, speak differently at different places. We show a particular version of ourselves to our parents, other version to our siblings, yet another version to our friends and many other versions to our teachers, relatives and neighbours.

     Here, we can clearly understand that we have different versions of ourselves which we sometimes notice and at many times it become a default version during that particular time. From this we have to understand the biggest truth and the most common reality of life “Everyone in this world alone is not different rather we ourselves are different and we have multiple version”. So, never expect the people around you to be same all the time because that is quite impossible. Even if they manage to remain the same that takes a lot of effort from their side because human beings evolve each day so it is hard to remain the same day after day.

     Possess the heart which makes you accept the people as they are and to never blame nor complaint when they change and evolve in life. Enjoy and live the art of life by understanding as well as accepting its reality.

 

 

Control Your Thoughts And Master Your Mind: A New Insight

 

     We human beings are made up of two great gems which exist within everyone of us. We have the ultimate control over one and the other one is out of our control. The one which is not controlled by us works properly most the time and the one which is controlled by us remains uncontrolled.

     Can you guess anything?

     The two great gems are our heart and mind. Our heart is controlled by our creator and so it beats without our instructions. On the other hand, we have full control over our mind. A human mind works 24/7 from our birth till death. We cannot possess a mind without any kind of thoughts. Have you ever had a clean and blank mind without any kind of thoughts, it is impossible. Our mind revolves around something and it will convert them into chain of thoughts. Our mind is our greatest friend as well as our greatest enemy. When we have a control over our mind and thoughts we can lead a happy life by befriending it. If you make your mind revolve around all unwanted thoughts which is of no use it will turn into your greatest enemy. It is equal to a washing machine which runs without any clothes. Simply it is useless.

     The heart which is controlled by our creator possesses all kinds of good things like love, compassion, happiness and kindness. We say “I love you” from the bottom of our heart not from the bottom of our mind. When something or someone hurts us our heart will bleed not our mind because our hearts is filled with all beautiful feelings and emotions. On the other hand, our mind possesses many bad qualities like envy, hate and revenge. Our heart never gives us ideas to take revenge against someone or to hate and envy others rather our mind will remind us to do such kind of things which is utterly bad.

     Our mind can be controlled only by us. So, have a control over it by thinking about all good things. Develop and use it for your welfare. Don’t let the thoughts just occupy you rather master your thoughts. Choose your thoughts and think about them. Don’t ever think of any random things which is ultimately of no use. When you think of all random thoughts which does not have any kind of meaning switch on your conscious mind and think about the things which is required for your growth. Plan things, learn things, improve your memory power, think about things which can make a impact and can help you as well the people around you. The people who have mastered their mind and thoughts are still remembered by everyone and they have a place for themselves in the history of mankind . We remember Shakespeare who has created characters which can create a impact within us even today, we remember all the writers, inventors, historians and leaders who had controlled their thoughts and invested them in all valuable resources.

     Here, it is upto you to choose a wise mind or a waste mind.

Trust People And Believe In Human Connection

 

     It is normal to have high as well as low days in life. A person cannot be always have a high and happy days, a person cannot also have continuous low days in life. Happy and not so happy days are the part of life. Here, during happy days our own company will be enough for us to enjoy and celebrate them. Everything around us will look beautiful and we will love our life more during such happy days. We will feel the sense of comfort and acknowledgement from our fellow humans and people will also praise us when something good happens in our life. Here, the other phase will be a vice verse of the happy days in our life.

      When we face something which we could not able to handle we feel broken inside but at the same time we never speak about that outside because of the fear of being judged by others. A human always need the connection with his fellow human to feel safe, comfortable, ultimately to love them and say that everything will better in life. So, make some human connection with the members in your family, friends, relatives or the person who you can blindly believe and can speak about anything which bothers you.

     Few things in life cannot be handled alone because we could never have experience in everything which we face in life. We cannot also be clear and confident all the time because that is the way we are designed. We can live a good life when we have people around us to even listen to the things we say. Human connections are essential so never think that we are capable of everything and we never need anyone to help us in our life because leading a life without human ties is impossible. If you try to be on your own all the time then you are constantly failing in all areas of life. Believe and trust the right person who is genuinely good from heart. Also, be that person in someone’s life and help the people to stay happy in life.

The Greatest Gift

     We human beings can choose few things in life but many thing in life remains to be a gift and when cannot choose them rather they will choose us to be a part of itself. We can choose our education, job, career and the things we buy like car, house and clothes. On the other hand, we cannot choose our family – our father, mother, siblings, relatives and children. They all are the god given gift to us and so we consider all them so special than the things we choose in our life. Gifted things remain unchangeable but the things we choose can be changed and so we often suffer to choose right things in life.

      Human beings are special especially the people whom we are related to always hold a special place in our heart as well as in our life. They are irreplaceable and if you are a person who is gifted with a loving family then you are the most special human being because many people suffer in life with this irreplaceable gifts. If you are happy and satisfied with those people then you are the special person whom god loves so much. Most of the people underestimate or never estimate the true value of the relationships we have with the members in our family rather we focus on the faults and flaws. Never live your life lethargically by undervaluing the love of your family rather cherish and make it special.

       If you have people in your life to hug you during your happy days and to weep your tears during your sad days then that is the biggest gift which you cannot earn by any worldly things. Understand and acknowledge the true facts about our existence. Our life is much more blessed than we think.

 

 

 

 

Memories and Maturity

     We human beings cherish and love most of our yesterdays. We call them as beautiful and pleasant memories. We talk and chat about all the happy moments which happened in our life and sometimes we even feel that we have lived happily in our past compared to our present life. That is why we consider our school and college days as more special ones. On the other hand we think that we have became more responsible and matured human being today. Here, there is a clash between memories and maturity. There comes a wonderful question “Does memories give us happiness or maturity gives us happiness?”

      Most of us will suddenly tell that memories gives us more happiness comparing to our maturity. Here, life teaches us that there is only a small thin line between memories and maturity. Even during our yesterdays we considered that we are more maturity and also today we think that our maturity level has increased. During each phase of our life our maturity levels will get increased naturally but it is in our hands to now allow that maturity to affect our happiness. The truth is maturity does not stop us from creating more memories rather we ourselves restrict our limitations.

      Be matured but at the same time never lose the happy side of yourself which you loved the most. Whatever you do today is going to be a memory tomorrow. We will remember only our memories but not our maturities. 

Post-Diwali

      Waiting is more beautiful when you wait for something worthy. We waited for Diwali for the past few weeks but after it gets over we crazily start to count the months for the next Diwali or any other festival which we love. Waiting has just mixed in our blood and we also love to wait because nothing in this world can give us happiness than waiting. Once in a interview, the interviewer asked a question to actor Rajinikanth “How much do you enjoy your stardom and fame?” He suddenly replied that “Waiting phase was beautiful than the stardom”.

      When you think deeply you will know or find out the actual meaning about the beauty of waiting. It indicates that the human journey is beautiful and there is no actual happiness which resides in an occasion or in a day rather each and everyday is special in someway. Human beings are the yesterday beings because we think of the yesterday’s more than our today. Keep the happy memories of yesterday but live your today and remember that life is beautiful each day.

      Write down your happy moments of this Diwali in your diary or in a journal and make is more special. Let us move forward and enjoy our forth coming days.