Take Up Responsibility Towards Your Life

 

       How many hours we spent each day to improve ourselves?

       This is the biggest question which each one of us in this world should ask to ourselves on daily basis. Existing is different from living. To live our life we should do something daily to upgrade ourselves. It might even be the simplest things like learning a new concept, practicing good qualities, reading few pages of the book which lies in our shelves for the long time, helping others and it might be anything which has the power to improve ourself and also others around us.

        Have leisure time but don’t spend your whole day leisurely. In this lockdown days many of us are in our home. We just spend our whole day for entertainment like scrolling our social media, watching television, getting up very late and all other things which just sucks our time. One day will get continued to one week and it will get converted into months. At the end we will end up being lazily lazy.

        When laziness rules our life we become a person who does not have any control over ourselves. Mostly, the children in the house are being lazy now-a-days. They spend their time doing nothing worthy but they are not aware of the importance of learning and upgrading themselves. So, the elder ones in the family should guide them in the right path. Initially, it will be hard to make the children to follow a healthy routine but practice will set things right. The biggest problem everyone faces in each house is - the elder ones in the family are not in the position to advice the younger ones because they too are in the position to change themselves to be in the place to guide the children in the house.

         The elder ones in the family should be the role model for all the younger ones. During 90’s and early 2000’s all the grandparents in the families will be a strict disciplinarian and they too will be proper, punctual and will have healthy routines. Now, in the modern world the elders fail to follow that kind of strict discipline which were once a part of our families. So, be a responsible elder.

 

Respect Individuality

 

     One of the common complaint which many people in the world often make is “everyone around us are not perfect”. We think that the people around us should lead their life in the same way we live - the qualities we practice, the deeds we do and even the same way we behave & react to any particular situation in our life.

     Here, we have to understand that the qualities we practice depends upon our own value system and in the same way each one in the world will have their own set of values &beliefs. We have to respect others and the values they practice in life if not we should not expect the people around to follow the values which we practice. Everyone is different and so all the people will have different focus in life. Respect others by valuing their individuality.

     When the qualities of others hurt you think of that from the opposite person’s point of view and perspective then validate whether that quality of that particular individual is acceptable from their point of view. Never judge and valuate anyone without knowing them. Life is all about understanding and accepting. So, understand and accept things and make yourself happier.

 

 

 

Stop Seeking Validation

 

     We human beings love to hear appreciations from the people around us and especially from the people whom we love in life. A word of appreciation means a lot to every individual in the world. We do most of the hardest things in life to gain appreciation and validation. When the people around us does not appreciate us for the good deeds we have done we might feel hugely disappointed. That disappointment stored within us will get transformed into anger after some time. The anger caused out of disappointments are not easy to heal rather those anger will make us hurt ourselves as well as the people around us.

     Here, practice not to develop the quality of expecting appreciations from the people around you for the good deeds you have done. On the other hand, develop the quality of appreciating the people around you for even the simplest things they have done in their life. Start to give the things which you expect and long for in life. The process of giving does not seem any approval from anyone around us. So, give things which you love to receive and with time it will get transformed into your character.

     Never long for anything rather be an giver. At, first it may hurt us but with each passing moment in life all our worries will get vanish off. Never expect appreciation and validation for the good deeds you have done in your life because that appreciation which you expect may not arrive at the time which you expect. So, never be shaken up by any external factors rather be you and do what you love to do.

 

Kindness = Godliness

 

     We human beings acquire many good qualities to make our life a more beautiful one but one of the best qualities which make us a wonderful human being is the “act of kindness”. We think that “Cleanliness is equal to godliness” but I believe that “Kindness is equal to godliness”. A human heart which does not possess the quality of kindness loses the beauty of life. A kind heart finds goodness everywhere. The kind-hearted human being loves all the good things around them and they just ignore all the negativity.

     The kind person may seem be an biased individual from everyone’s point of view and the people around them may think that the person is not loyal. But, a kind hearted human being will never even try to prove themselves as the kind person rather they will just be kind. Accusing others, telling that they are wrong, pointing that they are unfair is the easiest task which everyone can easily do but understanding the unfair nature of others and accepting that and being kind to them is the quality of divine.

      Be a kind human being and just love everyone around you. Life becomes beautiful when your heart is filled with love and kindness. Respect the people who are kind towards you irrespective whatever you do to them.

The Power Of Healing

 

    We can change ourselves and can transform our life into a better one but few things in life cannot be changed in a fraction of second or in an hour rather it takes an ample amount of time to understand and accept things in life. Time is the best medicine, healer, teacher and a philosopher. Time will make us realize our own mistakes and will help us to think from the other person’s perspective.

     The duration of that time period might be long but there is no other best way to heal something in life. Whenever, something bothers  you don’t think about that too much rather understand the power of time and remain calm. The anger which we hold today will surely get reduced tomorrow and it will even vanish off after so many tomorrow’s. The people around us are humans just as who we are so flaws are inevitable and problems are unavoidable but the grudges can be broken. We are given ample time to rewrite our story at any point in time of our life.

     Life is all about letting go of the things which worries you and letting in all the positive human emotions. Ultimately, we are just the visitors and our stories might get registered but the soul will depart one day, only our existence will be remembered.  At the end of the day we are mortal beings trying to create a immortal story in all possible ways.

Remain Same From Both Inside and Outside

 

     There will always be the side of ourselves which we never show to the people around us. A person may be so cunning inside but they could ever show that quality of them to the people around them. We always hide few qualities of ourselves from the people around us to show or project ourselves as a good human being. It is common and normal to remain like this but the problem arises when we store more unwanted stuff inside ourselves which does not hold any value.

     Never hold so many qualities which you cannot show to the people around you. Try to remain same both from inside and outside because that will give us ultimate self-confidence and belief in ourselves. Never hold so many things inside your heart because that will lead to huge doubtfulness.

     Never think and believe that the people around us will never know about the inner qualities which we hide from them. The people who are close to us will surely know about all our positive and negative qualities. So, never hold something which is unacceptable by most of the people around you. Be true and be real with all good qualities which will help you grow as well as make the people around you to love you more.

 

Touching Lives

     We humans are deeply interconnected beings. We care and love all our fellow humans knowingly or unknowingly. We might have many troubles and problems in life but when we see other people around us suffer in life we will feel bad for them. Few people will even pray to god that all the people in the world should not suffer rather everyone in this world should lead a happy and peaceful life.

     Everyone of us have a soft and caring side which resides inside our character and personality. When we care for other person’s happiness there we get transformed from an individual to a human being. Now-a-days, in this super fast lifestyle we are slowly forgetting and moving away from this human side of our personality. Here, consider this post as a reminder and care for the people around you. Help the ones who need help, care for the people who longs for attention and atmost love all the people like you love yourself.

      Life in this earth seems to be longer as well as shorter but life is long and short in some way. If you love to live a long life try and touch the life of other individuals around you. Live a long life by helping others to live their life happily. Our life will not be measured by the days we have lived in this earth rather our life will be measured by the days we have touched others life and made them feel happy.

 

Silence is the Best Teacher and the Greatest Gift

      We human beings learn life lessons from our successes, failures, opportunities and from many other things which happens to us and as well as which happens within us. We can learn many valuable things in life by being silent and letting the thoughts just flow within us. Silence is the best teacher, healer and preacher as well. It will have solutions for all our thoughts. Today, in the modern world we are mostly left alone to have ample time for ourselves but we are occupied with gadgets. We may have quality of time in our hands but it is hard for us to find time to be just silent.

       Whatever, we seek form the outside world already exists within us but we fail to discover that because we never allow us to have time for ourselves. So, practice the habit of being silent for just 10 minutes a day. The practices like prayer and meditation are trying to teach us to be silent and observe ourselves. If we practice the act of being silent then all the positive thoughts will flow within us and that will change the course of our life.

        Allow your mind, heart and body to just relax. Nothing in this world can give us happiness then silence because it is the state of being beyond bliss. It is hard to put forth that feeling in words so just feel it by being silent.

 

Living A Life of Ease

      There are three kinds of people in this world. The people belong to each category are different from one another but at times they seem to be interconnected. The people who belong to the first category are the individuals who are negative minded or bad. They will do all sorts of unwanted things like gossiping, speaking unknown facts about others, being selfish and so many other things. These kind of people are already bad themselves but they will expect the people around them to be good and kind towards them. If other individuals do something against them they will complain as if they are good themselves. It is hard to change this kind of individuals because they won’t even lend the ears to listen.

     The individuals who belong to the second category are the ones who are good and they will try and do good things for others but their biggest drawback is when other individuals around them does something bad it will be hard for them to accept that. Later, they will think that the world is bad and why they alone should be good. They will have so many questions about themselves and the people they see in life. Even though, they are good themselves it will be hard for them to face the negativity. Later, they will mingle with the first category people and only few from this category will move forward and reach the third category(Only Few).

      The majority of the people in this world belong to the first category. Approximately, upto 65% of the people in this world belong to the first category. The people who belong to the second category are upto 30%. Here, the real problem is the people who belong to the first category could think that they are in the second category even most of the people in this world think that they are right and others are wrong.

       Finally, the people who belong to the third category are only 5% and it is rare to find this kind of individuals in life. Most, of the time the third category people are the ones who are in their old age. They could have reached here after learning and overcoming many hardships and struggles in life. This people are the kind of individuals who are truly good and their biggest strength is they never find faults with others rather they accept people. They will be genuinely good, kind-hearted and loving towards all their fellow humans irrespective of what they do to them. We can find most of our grandparents with this kind of qualities. This is the kind of wisdom we get after living 95% of our lifetime in this earth. The people who understand this early in life are very few but once we acquire this quality of being good and kind without any sort of expectation from others then life will bless you with unlimited things which you cannot even imagine. Life will became a blessing when we have this quality. People around may think that we are normal as they are but the one who possesses this quality alone knows that how beautiful and ease life is.

    

 

Dreams Do Come True When You Have the Courage to Dream and Act Over it

       People many times in life fear to have and even design dreams for themselves because humans are more concerned towards their fellow humans and their opinions. Even before dreaming about something in life we ask millions of unwanted and negative questions to ourselves.

Is it the right time to dream?

Will my dreams come true?

I’m I expecting more?

       This are the few common questions many aspiring dreamers have in their life. We even doubt our possibilities. All this questions and thoughts will make us to dream smaller with limited rules. Having a great vision and dream about ourselves is the mark of superior personality. It is common to think about dreams but it is rare to have dreams and pursue them is even more rarer. So, shift yourselves from a commoner to the rarer.

       Impress yourself and that is essential to achieve your dreams. If you think that your dreams seems to be weird, out of the box and looks crazy from others point of view then you are at the right path because the greatest achiever of all time are once mocked and criticized by the people around them.

        Have a dream, believe in it, never question it and finally achieve it.

Plans Have the Power to Work

      We humans have a superstition that our plans will never work most of the times in life. Many times life also proves that by making things just opposite to our plans. All this happens because of us and our thoughts. When you keenly observe yourself and your thoughts you can relate to it. Most of the times we plan something and at the next second we will think of the last time we have planned something which was not executed or not so went well. So, our mind will be filled with negative emotions when we think about the unattained and unachieved things in life.

      Whenever, you plan something think about the possibilities and positive side of those plans. Think about how it will be executed and the happy outcome of that plan. Think about your feelings and emotions when that plan comes true infront of your eyes.

       Everything in life happens as per our inner thoughts so think only good thoughts. When you mind goes towards anything negative pull it back constantly and consciously - think good, positive and happy thoughts. A plan will always work when you believe in it totally without any kind of doubts and questions.

Plan your life work your plan and success will knock at your door.

 

Start Now - Today is the Best Day

      We human beings often say that we are waiting for the perfect time and correct opportunity but there is nothing called perfect timing and opportunity in life. If you love to achieve your dreams in life then this is the right time to start off if you have not yet started. Time and tide waits for none. If you miss your today there will be another tomorrow but that tomorrow will not compensate the day you have missed. So, start your ground work today and that will eventually lead to the great victory tomorrow.

       Don’t postpone things in life by giving silly and blame excuses. Giving excuses is easy but working and achieving things in life is difficult. Never blame other for your missed out opportunities rather believe that you are made for greater things in life. Life never stops at any point so never restrict your limitations from dreaming bigger and achieving bigger in life.

        Improve yourself in all areas of life. Life cannot became complete and happy by possessing the one ingredient called professional success rather happiness and achievement in life is measured by the equivalent success in all areas of life (Personal, professional and social). If you are weak in any of the areas then start your ground work today to improve that. Life is not a line rather it is a circle which is full –fledged so improve in all areas of life.

 

Our Dreams Define Us

      Every individual at some point in their life will have some great dreams and aspirations. It is very common to have dreams because no one will stop us from just dreaming about things in life. Only few people achieve their dreams because they work hard towards that irrespective of all the positive and negative comments they face in life. Everyone around us won’t understand our dreams because each individual in different in their own ways. We cannot blame them for not believing in us. Everyone will have a “because” to prove that our dreams are not worthy enough and few will even tell that it is just the waste of time.

     To have a dream is common and to achieve that dream is called success. So, work hard in what you believe because you surely will have a reason to prove the world that every dream of every person can come true when they fully believes in themselves. Don’t lose hope at any point in life and never question your faith and belief. Do whatever possible to achieve your dream but make sure you don’t take any short cuts.

     “Our ground work will help us to reach the sky”. Have strong basements and build your dream, think about it, dream about it, work hard towards it and finally believe. Shut out all the other noises and opinions around you. When you totally believe in yourself and your dreams then no one can stop you from achieving that in life. Be passionate and never became tired. Have that burning fire of desire to achieve your dream which might now be unknown to the world. It's absolutely fine if no one believes in your dreams because an unknown and unacceptable dreams have more value.

Make Your Own Rules

      A school has a set of rules, a college and an institution has a set of rules, a organization has a set of rules, our state has a set of rules, our country has a set of rules. Each and every place which is designed for human growth has some set of rules to follow. All this rules are framed to make the life of the humanity and the individuals better but the important question here is, do we have the set of rules for ourselves ? Many people in the world try and follow the rules framed by others but they fail to design rules for themselves which will help them to uplift there life.

      Life gives each individual the liberty to frame and design a set of rules for themselves but we take that for granted. We understand that liberty in a very wrong sense which finally leads to non-rule system of living. So, frame certain rules for yourself and follow them till it becomes your habit. Once a rule gets transformed into a healthy habit then life will be fruitful and worth living for.

      Frame rules which will help you to grow in your life. There is nothing wrong in copying few things from others rule sheets. Make some best rules and follow them. Live your life not for the sake of living rather live your life for the sake of growing. Transform your ordinary self into an extra-ordinary self.

 

 

Three Common Traits of Successful People

     We human beings look up to the individuals who are successful in their respective fields. We drive some inspiration and motivation from those personalities. Everyone will have different favourites from various walks of life but all the so called successful people will have few qualities in common. Here are the three common qualities or traits that all the successful and happy people in the world have in common.

1.      The first and the best quality all the people we look up to possess is the quality of respecting their parents and considering them as their role model. They believe that their parents are the best humans that they have ever seen in their life. Starting from Bill Gates to the grocery shop owner whom you consider as successful will possess the habit putting their parents in a pedestal, worshipping them and preaching their values. Recently, Bill Gates said that “My dad was the real Bill Gates. He was all the things I strive to be”. This proves that parents are the great influencers in every successful individual’s life.

2.      The second most important aspect many successful people posses is the act of believing in the creation and the creator. They will be highly a spiritual being and will believe in the power of the universe and god. 

3.      The third most special quality the successful people have is the practice of learning from everyone around them. They will try to learn the perspective of others and they will even learn from other persons mistakes.

      If you love to grow in your life and be successful and happy in what you do then learn from everyone you look up to. 

 

Improving Self-esteem

     It is common to feel low at times in life. Each of us will feel the lack of confidence in ourselves during certain times. To rebuild our self-esteem and confidence we can do certain things like reading, listening to music, writing something and watching a movie but apart from all this there is one best method which we can use to regain our confidence.

     Doing things which people say that is impossible by us will give us an sense of satisfaction but doing things which we believe that is impossible by us will give us an extreme confidence in ourselves. For example, we may be poor in dancing, drawing and we might lack some sort of skills which we try to improve but that could have end up being an impossible one. Here, during the time when you face that extreme low in your life try and figure out a particular skill which you lack in yourself and practice it and do it till it turns out to be perfect.

     So, by doing the things which we believe that is impossible by us will give us an satisfaction and confidence about ourselves. It will finally boost our self-esteem and will indicate that nothing is impossible in this world. 

 

Be there for Others

     In today’s modern world we human beings care more about ourselves and our individualities. That is absolutely a good one until it never hurts anyone around us. Don’t be too much self-centered because we need our fellow beings during our dark phase of life as well as to share our happiness. Don’t build wall around yourself by letting others outside and cocooning yourself inside that wall. Rather be there for others and lend your shoulders for them when they face tough times in life and be there with them to celebrate their happiness as well.

     There is nothing beautiful in this world than being there for others when they need us the most. Life will became hard when we even try to distance ourselves from others because it is impossible to live without human ties. Protect your individuality but at the same time don’t be over protective.

     Never try to stand alone rather try and be along with the people whom you love and the people who loves you. Both are important in our life. Believe in unity and prove to the world that “Unity is Strength”.

Live and grow together.

 

 

The Highest form of Self-love

     We human beings expect everyone around us to be perfect and be disciplined but we many times fail to access our own discipline. At first, what we expect from others should be there within us. When we expect the people around us to be the good humans with all the positive character traits we should also possess the same. Self-discipline is the basic key to master all the beautiful things in life.

     Practice good habits and never leave them at any point in life because it is hard to regain good habits after losing it. Do your duty and work properly without giving any blame excuses. If something feels wrong, try and reconsider it and decide the best thing which feels correct to your instincts. A self- disciplined person will be an example for everyone around him. Don’t preach others to follow good things in life rather be an living example by being an strict disciplinarian for yourself.

      Discipline yourself and became the better version of yourself.

Balance between Personal and Professional Life

     Our intelligence and knowledge does not have anything to do with our personal and family life. Many people will excel and be successful in their professional life but their personal life will be a not so happy one. To balance both our personal and professional life one should understand that their knowledge will never help then to tackle the problems which they face in their personal life. So, don’t try to prove yourself as a intelligent member in the family rather approach your family members with love, kindness and compassion.

     Use your wisdom to handle the issues which you face in your personal life. Forgive and forget the issues and never hold on with any of the grudges which happens in the family because kindness is the best language which will help us to have the healthy family life. Our personal and the professional lives are two different entities so don’t try to implement the rules which you follow in your office at your home.

     A proper balance will make us a successful professionally and will make us happy with our family. Don’t mix success with family because the word success has nothing to do with relationships.

 

 

 

 

 

Vibes of the Materialistic Things

      Each and every material thing which we possess will have the kind of frequency and vibration. Many of us are unaware of that fact. The material things possess their own frequency by observing our vibration towards it. For example, if we love the watch we wear that will transmit a kind of good vibration during the time when we look at it. In, the same way every object we possess will turn out to be a positive and negative one by observing our thoughts towards it.

     When, you buy an new footwear and after buying you think that the colour is not good, it does not fits you properly and it is not comfortable. Finally, all this thoughts will affect the frequency of that material object and that will emit only negative result like making us fall down. So, understand the equations of the materialistic things starting from the watch you wear, the mobile you use, the bike in which you travel and the money you handle.

      Have and possess those materialistic things only if you feel a kind of positive and good energy towards it. Don’t hold on with the things which you don’t love to have but having it for the sake of having. Transmit your energy to the things you love and they will also love you back and most importantly they will protect you from all the negative thoughts.