Stop Seeking Validation

 

     We human beings love to hear appreciations from the people around us and especially from the people whom we love in life. A word of appreciation means a lot to every individual in the world. We do most of the hardest things in life to gain appreciation and validation. When the people around us does not appreciate us for the good deeds we have done we might feel hugely disappointed. That disappointment stored within us will get transformed into anger after some time. The anger caused out of disappointments are not easy to heal rather those anger will make us hurt ourselves as well as the people around us.

     Here, practice not to develop the quality of expecting appreciations from the people around you for the good deeds you have done. On the other hand, develop the quality of appreciating the people around you for even the simplest things they have done in their life. Start to give the things which you expect and long for in life. The process of giving does not seem any approval from anyone around us. So, give things which you love to receive and with time it will get transformed into your character.

     Never long for anything rather be an giver. At, first it may hurt us but with each passing moment in life all our worries will get vanish off. Never expect appreciation and validation for the good deeds you have done in your life because that appreciation which you expect may not arrive at the time which you expect. So, never be shaken up by any external factors rather be you and do what you love to do.