Grudges

     Sometimes in life we humans hold on to few unwanted grudges in life. Grudges are the unnecessary one which will portray us as a bad individual infront of others. To lead a happy and satisfied life we should practice the act of forgetting and forgiving rather we humans always hold one with those unwanted grudges.

     Try and maintain a smooth relationship with everyone around you because that will give us more clarity and peace in life. Don’t ever cut off your relationship with other individuals around you because that will remain as a scar in our life. All the grudges and bad images about others were built up all the negative thoughts about the person rather we should approach an individual all their positive qualities.

     A person who looks at the positive side of life will never hold on towards any bad things in life. So, be kind towards others irrespective of all their behaviors. Our attitude and behavior will reflect our character and perspective towards life.

Teachings from Selfless Parental Love

    We human beings love to be loved. We expect all our near and dear ones to always be kind towards us. We also expect others to love as selflessly without any sort of expectations from us in a way they should adjust with whatever things we do.

     The concept of this selfless love has been inculcated into our mind by seeing the love of our parents towards us. Our parents will love us unconditionally irrespective of all our good and bad behaviors. They will love us, care for us, adjust and cope with all our naughty attitudes. So, when we enter into the outside world we expect our friends, partner and relatives to love us in the same way that our parents have loved us but it is impossible for anyone to love us with that kind of love. Parental love is different from all other love which we receive.

     The parental love teaches us that we should be kind towards everyone around us without expecting that same from others because everyone is different. We humans always understand things in a wrong sense so we expect others to love us in a selfless way. Be kind towards others without expecting anything in return because world is in need of selfless love and people but not the selfish ones.

 

Internal Individuals

      World is filled with two kinds of people in it. People in the first category will keep all their emotions as an internal asset and the second variety of people are emotion volcanoes who will exploit like an nuclear bomb when they are emotional. It is hard to justify and prove which category people are correct and which ones are wrong. There are few advantages and disadvantages of being both internal as well as the external person.

      When a person is filled with negative emotions such as sadness, anger and frustration it is good to be an external person who can pour out their depression and feel relaxed after speaking out. On, the other hand an internal person enjoys all the positive emotions such as happiness, joy and bliss. Here, justifying which is good and bad is hard but the best thing could be “being an internal person without the disturbance of any external noise”.

      An internal person can be more strong and they can handle themselves better than others. They will self-heal and self-help themselves even during all the good and bad times. An internal person can be more stronger in life irrespective of all good and bad happenings.

 

 

 

 

Dilemma

     Human beings are the most different as well as weird creatures who live in the planet earth. We ourselves do not know about what we want for us in life. We will always have the dilemma in deciding or even thinking about what we expect. There are few weird things which humans randomly think of but fail to decide.

During, morning we think about evenings,

During, hot sweaty days we think about the cold winters,

On rainy days we think about spring,

When we are alone we think about our family and friends,

When we are surrounded with family and friends we think about peace of being alone,

During, childhood days we love to grow up,

Once we grow up we love to be that little child again,

When we are in our home we think of our dream places

Once we move out of our city we tend to miss our hometown badly,

We never know what we love and what we don’t.

We don’t know what is bitter and what is better,

We love and unlove,

We live more in our memories than in the reality.

Till the end of our life we are just trying and figuring out

  “How to live, how to love, where to live, what to love, what is good and at the extreme end of our life we question ourselves IS THIS WHAT WE CALL IT AS LIFE”

Life seems to be tough but it will look simple and sweet at the end with its own dilemma.

Never consider life as a great question mark rather approach life with huge exclamatory.

 

 

 

 

 

Relatives - No "They are My Family"

      When teenagers become adults they will have so many questions and doubts in and about life. One among the major doubt is that “Whether all our relatives are good people or bad ones”.

      We could start to look at our uncles and aunts as outsiders. We could like to maintain a distance from them and the most cruel thing is that we will frame certain rules and norms for our parents, about how to maintain their relationship with their own brothers and sisters. All the adults especially in India have the problem of accepting all their relations as our own family. We see them as separate family but they are the ones who are more important to our parents next to their parents.

      We see our aunts and uncles as outsiders sometimes but we have to understand that they are the sisters and brothers of the most important people in our life – our parents. To know how important they are in our parents life do see the photographs and video footages of your parents which were taken before you were born or before they got married. Then, your eyes will be filled with tears by seeing that beautiful and pure bond which they have shared but now restricted to maintain certain rules.

      So, don’t do this kind if things to your parents and make them feel unhappy rather make them happy by supporting them and encouraging them to maintain a happy & healthy relationship with their loved ones. Don’t ever try to teach your parents because it is the biggest crime which will never be forgiven or forgotten. Karma will make us face the same situation in our life which will be difficult for us to handle and accept.

                                                                                                                    - Swathi Kannan

 

The Art of Diary Writing

       “I can shake off everything as I write; my sorrows disappear, my courage is reborn” says Anne Frank, the author of the famous book “The Diary of a Young Girl”. The art of writing has became the integral part of many people’s life. Everyone of us write something daily. It might be in a piece of paper, Whatsapp status or in a diary. We can also call ourselves as the beings of writing because in some way or the other writing is connected with everyone of us.

      Many people write diaries. Some write about our their daily life, many people write occasionally, few people write rarely but we all love to have a diary. Everyone of us could have thought about writing a diary at some point in life. Few might have started writing diary once that idea flickers in their mind but many of us could have thought of writing but we don’t know what to write, when to write and how to write.

      Start writing diaries and write about the happy moments in your life. We could have felt happy at a particular moment but words could have fall short to express that happiness. We remain quite without sharing them with others. Write about those things. Pour out the feeling of happiness in written words. Don’t write about the sad and depressing experiences because when you re-read them after few years it will give so much pain which is unnecessary. When we experience something bad the lessons of those experiences could have automatically stored in your mind so don’t write the ones which are strongly rooted in your memories as lessons.

      Write about the beautiful, happy, blissful and evergreen memories. Even if you re-read them after many years they will bring back that happiness and joy infront of our eyes. Do write a diary and remember to write only the happy things.

Letters and Email

    

      There are many beautiful and blissful things in this world which is loved by everyone but most of those were lost in the track of time. We may love that but we might have forgotten the happiness of receiving and returning that. Here, In the first week of August we going to bring back the memories of that beautiful things which humans have forgotten but remains so special till now.

      Till early 2000’s we use to write letters to our family members and to our loved ones. The words we write will be from our heart. We love to write letters but the technological advancement has destroyed the beautiful feeling of writing letters and receiving letters. We have forgotten that in that track of time but later we wrote email which were also equal to letters in some way. Now, in the present scenerio the art of writing letters and sending emails have vanished from this world. We all know that this beautiful things existed in this world but today we are living in the era of Whatsapp, facebook and instagram. We talk and chat through smiley, stickers and through three to four letter words like Gm, Hmm, Ok.

      The human connect and happiness just evaporated in the air. So, to make others happy and to make them feel special write letters to them if not write an mail pouring out your love, affection and care for them. Human beings are still the same ones whose roots are always longing for love and affection. Do write a mail to your friends, family members, teachers and to your professors. Spreading love through words will mean a lot to everyone. Write to your near and dear ones. Ask them how they are, show your concern and love form them.

      A long mail with so much of love can make a person happy to its core. Write a letter or an mail to your dear ones today and be the reason for their happiness.