Self Advice

     When we reach a certain age, people around us will stop advising and they will think that we know everything in this world. We too could have hated hearing to those advises when we were a child and a teenager. Once everyone around us stops advising that is the time we long for better advice and guidance. As a grow up adults we could feel insecure and shy to state our problems to others. There is a special way to overcome this issue but it might look like an complicated one.

     When you are filled with certain doubts and questions about life try and figure out your exact question and write it down. After few hours write answer, solution or advice for that particular question which you have written. Think as if you are giving advice to your ownself and don’t be biased rather be genuine.

      Atlast, our mind will feel relaxed and the answer for our doubts would have also been found. Don’t transform your problems into worries rather convert your doubts into better piece of advice.

 

Enjoy and Cherish Your Journey

    

     We humans have big dreams and great aspirations in life. The world teaches us to set our goals high and introduces us to the world of dream but it fails to teach us few things. On our way towards success, goal or whatever we humans are focused on the destination and so we fail to enjoy our journey. After reaching our destination when we look back all our efforts and hard work will look like a beautiful memory but it will remain only as a memory because we have crossed all that and reached the place where we aspired to be. Now, more than the success the journey will seem to be special. So, learn to enjoy your journey which particularly means “Your Today”.

     Enjoy your present not by wasting your time rather by doing things which will make your grow in life. Appreciate yourself and applaud for yourself. The world does not have time to look and watch over all your tiny steps so encourage, enjoy and appreciate yourself all the time when you feel like you have done something great.

     One who understands “Life is a Journey” cherishes his life to its core but the ones who thinks that "the good phase of life alone is success" suffers in life. Lead your life by cherishing your today.

 

 

 

Blog Anniversary - First Year Celebration

     Today’s post is the most special one with two most special and important messages. I wrote my first blog post on this same day last year. Today is the 367^th post which actually means “the completion of one year- First year Anniversary of the blog". To make this day even more special I could like to share two important things which will make your life and living into an better one. I personally believe in both those qualities to make my life an happy one .

     We humans always think and dwell on the void in our life. We focus on the things which we do not have. It might be a person, a thing, an opportunity which we have missed and so many other things. We often think about them but to lead a happy life we should focus on all the positive side of life. We should be thankful and should possess the attitude of gratitude towards everything which we have in our life. Believe that life is beautiful even with that void because we are still alive and have a blissful life ahead of us with so many special gifts in it. If, we focus on the void there is a chance of missing out all the good things which comes in our way. So, accept and let go of all the void and hold on to all the beautiful and positive things in life.

     The other important unwanted quality which most of the humans possess is that “Holding on to our grudges and waiting for the perfect time to hurt other people through our words”. We humans hurt our fellow humans knowingly or unknowingly many times in our life. Sometimes we consciously hurt others by our words. We may forget that after sometime but the other person will remember and feel bad about that throughout his/her lifetime. Even we could have faced that same thing in our life and we know the pain of how words can hurt us to the core but we do that same to others. So, be conscious in choosing your words because we never know what the other person is going through in life.

     Here, the two most important things which I could like to insist is that don’t get worried about any kind of void rather focus on good things. The other one is “Don’t hurt the feelings of others thorough your words”. Be conscious before spitting a word out of your mouth because words can be a sword which will hurt others and the wounds can never be healed. Practice both this qualities to make your life better.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Self-Help Books

     There is a famous Swedish proverb which says “The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm” and an American proverb says that “Self-help is this best help”. All this insists and teaches us that we human should only depend on our ownself and we should be our first preference.

    The human life never comes with an manual which explains about how to lead our life on the earth rather the universe leaves that in the hand of the human beings to figure out the process of life. Here, the self-help books play an important role in designing the life of an individual. We humans can create our own manual by reading those books which will transform our life into an better one and also will help us to be the better version of ourselves.

     Self-help books teaches that doubts, insecurities and flaws are the part of life and there is nothing to get worried about the negative phenomenon rather we should focus on the positive and blooming side of life and build our characters with the basement of all positive energy.

     Do read books which will make your innerself strong and positive. Few books which I personally recommend are

1. https://swathikanna.blogspot.com/2020/07/positivity-through-books-day-2.html

2. https://swathikanna.blogspot.com/2020/07/positivity-through-books-day-9.html

3. https://swathikanna.blogspot.com/2020/07/positivity-through-books-day-11.html

4. https://swathikanna.blogspot.com/2020/07/positivity-through-books-day-20.html 

 

Plan but Don't be Calculative

     Many of us could have came across this famous quote “A fool with a plan is better off than a genius without a plan”. It is absolutely true because a person who plans things succeeds in life but at the same time we get confused about planning and being calculate in life. There is a huge difference between planning and calculating.

     Plans will give us clear vision about what we like to achieve in life on the other hand calculative mind is like fixing all the routes to reach our destination. Here, we should understand that “It is always good to have plans but it is not so good to fix the accurate routes to reach our destination”. Life is different and it will have its own path and route to reach out to our destination. So, don’t be too much calculative in life. Accept things with open-mindedness.

     When we are too much calculative there is a chance of attracting negative energy into our plan when our routes get blocked. So, have a better plan and work hard to achieve. Calculative plans will be more challenging and will make you feel inferior about yourself.

     Plan but don’t stick on with the routes rather believe in the magic of life by working hard towards your plan.

The Beauty of Each Day

    

    Everything in this world has its own music, rhythm and harmony. Everyone and everything is beautiful in the creation of God. There are many hidden reasons behind each and everything. Those were left to the human beings to find the hidden beauty. Each one of us see a same thing in different way. We have different perspectives and interpretations.

     Have you ever thought about the beauty of seven days which we call it as “Week”. Each day holds unique rhythm and harmony of its own.

1.   Monday’s are like race which is filled with tasks and works. It could seem to be the longest day of the week.
2.  Tuesday’s could be quite relaxing but could feel like the extension of Monday.
3.  Wednesday’s are both pleasant and alluring. Everything around us will look happy and the nature will look fresh throughout the day.
4.  Thrusday’s could feel like a dream in a fairy land. Things will just fall in place and happiness will be filled in the air we breathe.
5.  Friday’s are the mixture of both sunshine and bright moon. Happiness will get transformed into bliss.
6.  Saturday’s are for enriching our internal world. Everything around us will surprise us with its own beauty.
7.  Sunday’s are meant for human species to enjoy their life to its fullest. A day which teaches us all philosophical things about life.

Each and every day in this earth is special and beautiful. Explore your own vibes about each day and make it special in your own way.

Reread and Reexamine

     Human beings can also be called as "inseperble beings of love" because we will always be attached towards what we love in life. We watch our favorite movies atleast 20 times in a year, we listen to our favorite songs atleast 200 times in a year, we meet our loved ones often which is hard to number. All this same happens with books and reading. A reader will read 30 to 40 books in a year but only 2 to 3 books will remain close to the readers heart and that always remain in his most favorite list.

     We will read our favorite books often but we read few pages, few quotes and few sentences or lines from that particular book everytime we think about it. It will always feel good to re-read a book it feels as if meeting the person whom we love the most in this whole world. Do re-read the whole book atleast once in three years. Re-reading will give us different insights about that book.

     Re-read, re-live and feel happy about anything and everything about it. Life is beautiful when you make an effort to impress your ownself. Impress yourself by re-reading that special book which is deeply connected with your heart and soul. Do things which makes your heart smile and eyes shine.