Self-reliance

Discovering of one's own self is called self-reliance. It happens only when you start loving you more than you love others. Loving others may give happiness and the feeling of Warmth but loving our own self makes us strong and confident. So, start chasing your own self by discovering it. When, it finally happens their is no need for anyone to push you to achieve your dreams. Rather, you'll joyfully work towards them. And, No one can stop you at any instance.
Work and work and work and find your own self. Like a seed growing out of the soil you'll also grow from within.