We are Responsible for Ourselves

      No one in this world can read and get to know about what is running in our heart and mind. Each and everyone around us will know and judge us with the version of which we show and project to them. What we see outside a person is not the same as how things happen within a person.

      Few people might look happy and smiling all the time but deep down inside their heart they will be broken and will be longing for someone to notice that. On, the other hand few people might look like a mentally disturbed person and seem to silent all the time. By seeing them we will think that the person needs some help to overcome his depression but that individual will be happy inside and could have enjoying his/her own company and solitude.

      Here, all this indicates that we cannot help a person without knowing their needs. So it is always up to that particular individual to share the things which is running in their mind. We are the ones who is responsible for taking care of ourselves. We never want and expect other people to be with us during the happy phase of our life rather if any problem arises we start to search for the people who can lend their ears to hear own issues. If, no one comes to solve and hear our problems we end up frustrated and angry but we never understand that we are the ones who have created that situation. No one is responsible for what is going through inside us and we are the ones who are solely responsible for ourself.

      The above words may seem harsh but it is the reality of life. When we distance ourself from people during our happy days of our life thinking that we are enough for ourself and we are superior and others are not equal to us. Later, when we need them they won’t be their for us and that is not their fault. We cannot blame them for that because we are the ones who underestimated their presence in our life. So, treat everyone as you want to treated by others around you. Only we can be that one person who can decide and design our destiny.