The Art of Forgiving and Forgetting

       There is a huge difference between forgiving and forgetting but we human beings never really understand the correct meaning of the two words. We do things exactly opposite. We forgive the things we tend to forget but we forget the things that we should forgive. We can put this statement in an another way: when a person does something bad for us knowingly or unknowingly we often hold on with those grudges and we never even try to forgive that person rather we try to forget them which will eventually lead to an disaster. It is hard for a human being to forget his fellow human and it is not at all a possible one. Just, think of it – have you ever forget anyone in your life who have done something good nor bad. The answer will be an big no because forgetting is impossible.

      Trying to sort out the impossible will hurt us more rather than healing us. So, whenever you face a bad experience due to someone in your life try to forget the bad incident and try to remember the good lesson you have learned from that and most importantly remember that person for teaching you the best lesson in your life.

      I always believe that holding on to the grudges will make us weak and spoil our mental health which will lead to nothing good in our life. So, practice the act of forgetting the issues, problems and bad phase. Remember the lesson and the person. Understand, Life is hard to live without human ties.