We all know and think
that the opinion of others is something we should ignore when it tends to
affect our peace in life. Here, we just know some realities but we feel hard to
practice them due to our oscillation in thoughts. But, it is advisable to
ignore the words which disturb us mentally.
We are gifted with one life and it tends to be lived happily. Have your own positive rules to lead your life. Always, remember that we are never here to impress and please others. We are gifted with a life to live it with love and gratitude.
As we grow in life our
responsibilities start to grow along with us gradually. It is common for both
men and women to become busy with their work, family and so many other
commitments. Here, all these responsibilities take away our time. Our days,
weeks, and months are fully packed with our responsibilities and
commitments. Now, in this busy schedule, we just forget or we just find it hard to
spend time with ourselves and for ourselves. We slowly stop doing the things we
love, we fail to take care of our health, and we find it hard to pick the time to think
about ourselves. We just start to miss that time we have for ourselves.
Here, schedule your
work and have time for yourself. At least one to two hours per day. Just reflect
on yourself, smile, love, laugh, and cherish yourself. Our responsibilities are
important but we are much more important than all our responsibilities in life.
During your “me time” never allow anything to distract you from the things you
love doing. Turn off your mobile phones or just turn them into a silent mode to
avoid major distractions.
Love your life and live
your life to its fullest. Never forget to take care of your physical and
mental health because we a more precious to ourselves than anyone in this
world.
Real happiness in
life lies in “Spending time with ourselves”. When we spend our quality time in
a good and positive way we just start to enjoy our own company. Spent your time doing the productive things you love. It might either be reading, writing,
listening to music, organizing your place, cooking or it might be anything
that makes you feel good and positive.
The time you spent
with yourself enhances and improves you in numerous ways. Think of good thoughts
and ideas which can improve you as a person. Never allow your solitude to turn
into loneliness. Stay engaged in a good way.
Stay positive and live
life to its fullest.
As we move forward in
life we take up responsibilities, we care for the people around us, as well as
we tend to take care of our near and dear ones. When we move ahead we will face
criticism and people will start to speak behind our backs. Here, all these are
the signs which indicate that we have moved to the next stage of our life.
Consider and correct
the positive criticism because that will help us to enhance and equip ourselves
as better people. On the other hand, just ignore the negative comments, especially the people who envy and speak behind our backs. Those unwanted acts
have nothing to do with our life.
Stay positive and focus
on the positive side of life to live happily.
1. Be an inspiration to others and fill yourself with inspired thoughts.
2. Love the life you are gifted with and be grateful.
3. Never underestimate the people around you because everyone is intellectual in their own way.
4. Be confident about your dreams in life.
5. Carry a wide smile on your face to stay positive inside and out.
When we do something
either good or bad it will surely return back to us in some way or the other. Good
deeds will attract good things toward us on the other hand bad things will
attract negative things toward us.
We will always be
gifted back with the seeds we have planted. We cannot expect a pumpkin from bitter guard seed. So, be careful about the things which you do and choose in
life. Love life to its fullest without any regrets.
The character we
possess should be based on the values we follow, the qualities we practice and
the thoughts we repeatedly think. We should not change our character based on
the other person’s behavior and attitude towards us. Own a standard character,
think positively and stay good at heart.
Never allow the behavior
of others to affect the deeply rooted good values within you. Don’t judge
others, never compare, stop complaining because all this will lead to disaster.
Comparing ourselves with others and thinking that we are better than them is
just an unwanted comparison which does not make us better in anyway.
Stay rooted to your
core values. Live your life happily by improving and equipping yourself on
daily basis. Nurture your mind with good and positive things. Good things
happen to the people who are truly good at heart.
“Be yourself and spread
positivity”
1.Just smile and spread positivity.
2.Be there for the people who need you in
their life.
3.Shine and sparkle in the place where you
are planted.
4. Eyes speak louder than our mouths.
The greatest gift
everyone receives on the day of our birth is two kind-hearted humans whom we
can proudly call our father and mother. Without these two beautiful souls, our
life could have never been the same as it was today. They are the back-bones,
pillars of support, and the ones who will be with us not only during our ups but
a great strength during our downs in life.
Respect, love, care, and
spent time with them because they are the two people in our life who ultimately cherish us all the time. As a
child, we expect certain things from our parents during each stage and each
phase of our life but they just love to be loved. The unconditional love which
they shower upon us can never be replaced by anyone in this world. The way they
shower the love might differ but the heartfelt love they have towards
their children is unquestionable.
“Love your Parents the
way how God loves you”
Be there for them and with them because they are the treasures of our life.
The expectation is something
which arouses many negative feelings and emotions inside us. Expectation just
leads to uncertainty. A happy life is all about leading an expectation-free
life. It is hard to control ourselves and to stop ourselves from expecting
things to happen in our way.
Slowly and steadily we can learn to
practise an expectation-free life. When we stop expecting life just turns into a
miraculous one. Life will look and feel positive irrespective of all the
toughness.
When people behave differently than the
way you have expected just ignore and not accept that it is the reality of life
because we never behave in the way others expect us. We just behave
under our own convenience and the same rule is applicable to everyone around
us. What you consider wrong might be right for someone and wrong for
someone. Everything is up to an individual to decide whether something is right
or wrong.
Respect the individuality of others
without debating whether it is right or wrong. Just be yourself and spread
positivity or else stop spreading negativity.
Live life and love life. Stay richly
happier with positive thoughts and emotions.
The people we meet, the situations we
face, the experiences we gain and ultimately the way we handle things differ
during each phase of our life. At first, it will be hard for us to understand
certain things during the initial stage of any new phase in life. Later, when we
understand the situation it will be hard for us to accept that reality but
after some time we will adopt to accept the uncertainty. Finally, we will become
ourselves by understanding, accepting and adopting the life we are granted
with.
"This is what life is
all about"
Life changes rapidly and the next phase arrives faster. The same formula gets repeated again. Here, this reality is called life but it is left in the hands of each individual to decide whether life is good or bad for them. One who cherishes life considers it to be a joyful one but one who often finds faults considers life a bad one.
Enjoy each phase of your life because it
won't get repeated again. Everything in life is just a one-time opportunity.
Never lose its joy by finding only the faults and flaws.
Live happily and be
thankful.
Welcome December!!!
December is all about
gratitude, joy, merriment and happiness. Being grateful for each and everything
we have in our life makes us much happier. Here, I am back to my world of
happiness- blogging on this beautiful month which I personally love the most.
When our heart and mind come together to celebrate something that is where the true purpose of our life
resides. Writing for me is a soulful thing which I consider as a driving force
to lead my life in a better as well as a positive way. Today’s writing is
about “How to stay connected with our inner calling”.
We human beings are
filled with certain purposes and our inner calling. We are here on this earth
for a certain reason and that is what we call our purpose. Finding our purpose
and making that into our living makes our life a blissful one. We might either
be happy, sad or filled with any other emotion at some point but at that time
when we do something which we truly love our negative emotions will just get
vanished. Suddenly, our mind and heart will be filled with happiness and
gratitude.
The human mind is designed
in a particular way to respond to the beautiful things which make us happier.
Find your inner calling – your so-called purpose, desire and the place of your
happiness. Finally, stay true to your calling, improve yourself, extract the
best out of yourself and believe that you can and you will. A small step daily
towards your vision will lead you to great things. Love your life, and focus on the
positive, bright and happier side of life to stay cheerful.
