Children's Love Towards Parents

 

      Sometimes, writing about few topics are rare because it is hard to put forth some emotions, feelings and love in words. Most of the times people could think of writing about this kind of beautiful emotions but as I already said words will just fall short to express them. One among that rarest gem of emotion is “The love between the parents and their children’s”. Most of the times we hear a story from a one-sided perspective but the other and the unexplored side of the story will be more beautiful than the explained side. This happens in the relationship with parents and children’s. We all know about the love, affection and care of parents because it is mostly spoken and written about. It is true to the fact that parents turn out to be the best humans because of all the best qualities they possess like self-less love, care and affection towards their children.

      The unexplored side of this beautiful bond is “Children’s do love their parents unconditionally from their birth till death”. Parents are the great influencers in every child’s life irrespective of whatever age the child may be in. As, I already said it is hard to put forth this emotion in words because they are beyond words.

       Many great people we meet in our life will often talk about their parents and their love. It is because parents are the most special people in every child’s life. From our early days we try to imitate our parents and copy their style in the works we do. This happens because children’s will see all kind of best quality in their parents. A child till his 20’s will have huge admiration towards their parents but after 20’s they will develop a kind bond which is beyond closeness.

        Children’s at certain point in life will love their parents more than they love themselves. Parents are such a treasure in each child’s life because many children’s will do anything and everything to just see their parents happy and make them smile wider. Children’s who love their parents unconditionally will always make an extra effort to make their parents happy. A person who loves their parents the most will always be the best human because they will know the value of everything in life.

Silence is the Best Teacher and the Greatest Gift

      We human beings learn life lessons from our successes, failures, opportunities and from many other things which happens to us and as well as which happens within us. We can learn many valuable things in life by being silent and letting the thoughts just flow within us. Silence is the best teacher, healer and preacher as well. It will have solutions for all our thoughts. Today, in the modern world we are mostly left alone to have ample time for ourselves but we are occupied with gadgets. We may have quality of time in our hands but it is hard for us to find time to be just silent.

       Whatever, we seek form the outside world already exists within us but we fail to discover that because we never allow us to have time for ourselves. So, practice the habit of being silent for just 10 minutes a day. The practices like prayer and meditation are trying to teach us to be silent and observe ourselves. If we practice the act of being silent then all the positive thoughts will flow within us and that will change the course of our life.

        Allow your mind, heart and body to just relax. Nothing in this world can give us happiness then silence because it is the state of being beyond bliss. It is hard to put forth that feeling in words so just feel it by being silent.

 

Living A Life of Ease

      There are three kinds of people in this world. The people belong to each category are different from one another but at times they seem to be interconnected. The people who belong to the first category are the individuals who are negative minded or bad. They will do all sorts of unwanted things like gossiping, speaking unknown facts about others, being selfish and so many other things. These kind of people are already bad themselves but they will expect the people around them to be good and kind towards them. If other individuals do something against them they will complain as if they are good themselves. It is hard to change this kind of individuals because they won’t even lend the ears to listen.

     The individuals who belong to the second category are the ones who are good and they will try and do good things for others but their biggest drawback is when other individuals around them does something bad it will be hard for them to accept that. Later, they will think that the world is bad and why they alone should be good. They will have so many questions about themselves and the people they see in life. Even though, they are good themselves it will be hard for them to face the negativity. Later, they will mingle with the first category people and only few from this category will move forward and reach the third category(Only Few).

      The majority of the people in this world belong to the first category. Approximately, upto 65% of the people in this world belong to the first category. The people who belong to the second category are upto 30%. Here, the real problem is the people who belong to the first category could think that they are in the second category even most of the people in this world think that they are right and others are wrong.

       Finally, the people who belong to the third category are only 5% and it is rare to find this kind of individuals in life. Most, of the time the third category people are the ones who are in their old age. They could have reached here after learning and overcoming many hardships and struggles in life. This people are the kind of individuals who are truly good and their biggest strength is they never find faults with others rather they accept people. They will be genuinely good, kind-hearted and loving towards all their fellow humans irrespective of what they do to them. We can find most of our grandparents with this kind of qualities. This is the kind of wisdom we get after living 95% of our lifetime in this earth. The people who understand this early in life are very few but once we acquire this quality of being good and kind without any sort of expectation from others then life will bless you with unlimited things which you cannot even imagine. Life will became a blessing when we have this quality. People around may think that we are normal as they are but the one who possesses this quality alone knows that how beautiful and ease life is.

    

 

Accept and Correct Yourselves

      It is easy to change the world and also the people around us but it is hard to change ourselves. We human beings have the tendency of pin pointing all the bad and negative qualities of the individuals who are infront of us but it is hard to even talk about our flaws and it is even more harder to accept our flaws.

       At first, we have to understand the fact that no one is perfect in this world and so we are. As a individual we will have many good as well as bad qualities in our character. We will proudly acknowledge all our good qualities but when it comes to bad qualities we will try to give excuses for our behviours. Our ego will restrict us to accept our bad qualities.

        Here, it will eventually turn out to be our biggest flaw. Later, We will develop the attitude of focusing on the good side of our negative quality but nothing good will actually exist in our bad qualities. So, don’t try to prove yourselves rather accept things in life because acceptance will pave way to attract good things in life. Don’t be stubborn thinking that you are perfect. Accept your flaws, work in it and make them vanish.

Dreams Do Come True When You Have the Courage to Dream and Act Over it

       People many times in life fear to have and even design dreams for themselves because humans are more concerned towards their fellow humans and their opinions. Even before dreaming about something in life we ask millions of unwanted and negative questions to ourselves.

Is it the right time to dream?

Will my dreams come true?

I’m I expecting more?

       This are the few common questions many aspiring dreamers have in their life. We even doubt our possibilities. All this questions and thoughts will make us to dream smaller with limited rules. Having a great vision and dream about ourselves is the mark of superior personality. It is common to think about dreams but it is rare to have dreams and pursue them is even more rarer. So, shift yourselves from a commoner to the rarer.

       Impress yourself and that is essential to achieve your dreams. If you think that your dreams seems to be weird, out of the box and looks crazy from others point of view then you are at the right path because the greatest achiever of all time are once mocked and criticized by the people around them.

        Have a dream, believe in it, never question it and finally achieve it.

Our Character Defines Our Life

       Our character is the basic and the best quality which will help us to lead our life with ease and happiness. We sometimes think we are the kindest human in the world but others will look at us as the cruel human. Sometimes, we may consider ourselves as the arrogant individuals but people will look at us as the soft spoken and perfect individual. Here, we can clearly understand “What we think of ourselves is just the exact opposite thing about us”.

       We cannot define and describe about our character but the people around us can elaborate about our good and bad qualities. What we believe about ourselves is not our truest self rather what others see in us is our original and truest self. Sometimes, we pretend to be good because we love to hear from others that we are the best human beings.

        Character is the root of growth. If you love to grow in life build a strong basement with your good character. Everything in life has the possibility of shaking and making us fearful but our character will be our biggest support system during our tough as well as happy times in life. Our character is our biggest asset because everyone around us will love us and make us feel special when we are good. Everything in life takes time and in the same way developing good character takes ample time so learn and grow rich in character.

Understanding Life

      Life is the best teacher. It will teach us the unexpected lessons during the most unexpected time. We cannot escape from the reality of life because it is mandatory and compulsory to learn those lessons. If we fail or ignore to learn those lessons life will teach them again and again until we get tired over it. Here, the best way to learn those lessons is to stay patient in life. Nothing in this world can give us clarity about things other than this supreme quality of patience.

       We can upgrade and transform ourselves into a better individual when we try to develop the quality of patience which will eventually lead to emotional maturity. The people around us won’t be same all the time and it is human nature. No one can be same all the time because our situations design our thoughts and the outcome of our thoughts will turn into our behavior.

        Sometimes, it will be hard to accept those lessons in life but the one who understands things better will automatically develop the quality of accepting things irrespective of all the barriers. Our maturity should be reflected in our actions not just by our words. Time is the best healer. So, learn your lessons and leave your question papers to time and it will answer your questions in the most proper and prompt way.