Positivity

 

    Each and every human being on this earth will have so many positive qualities and few negative qualities. When we look at others we fail to notice their positive qualities and we focus on their negative qualities but when it comes to ourselves we think and believe that we have many good qualities compared to the people around us. With each passing year in our life we became more self-centric. We validate ourselves with the good qualities we have but we validate others with the negative qualities which they possess. Here, we became a human being with the worst trait of only finding fault with the others around us.

     Never develop this kind of attitude and behavior because life will became miserable when we look at the negative side of the people around us. Rather, be a human being who can see the positive side of the people who are around us. Appreciate them for all the good qualities they have because a word of appreciation can make a person do more good to the people around them. Try to avoid focusing on the negative side of their character. If you cannot avoid that speak to that person politely and give a proper explanation to them which will help them to understand themselves better.

     Treat people the way you like be treated and never hurt them all the time rather try to understand things from the other person’s point of view.

 

 

Learning

 

     Learning is a process. We human beings start to learn something new from the day we are born and that learning continues till the end of our life in this earth. We learn so many new things which help us to become better individuals. When we learn something new each day we understand that there is so much to learn in this world. All the people in the world does not know everything but at the same time everyone knows something which can help them to lead a better life.

     When we learn something new daily our old believes about few things will gets stronger, few of our opinions will get changed, few of our thoughts get clarity and we constantly understand things deeper. So, learn something new daily. It may be a quality, a data, philosophy and it may be anything which can make you a better person.

      Be a human being who does not afraid of facing any changes in life because change is evitable but make sure that you change for something good. Be a person who can accept the good things with open heart and a person who can boldly say no to all bad things. Learn and become a better person.  

Family - Strength and Weakness

 

     Family is everyone’s biggest strength as well as the biggest weakness. Sometimes, it is impossible to live a happy life without our family but at the same time there will always be few bad days and bad times which are unavoidable. When we go through some bad days and when some clashes arises in our family we think of leaving away all the ties. We think that our family is our biggest weakness because our family asks us to follow few rules which are hard to practice.

     When we have a problem with a family member we think that they are bad without never even trying to look at a situation from their point of view. Family is all about forgiving the not so good incidents, forgetting the bad days, loving all the beautiful days and finally family is all about unity and love.

     Whenever you feel that your family is your biggest weakness in life think of all the beautiful, happy and good things which you have in your life through your family. Relationships are beautiful only when we nurture them will all good emotions like memories, kindness, love and happiness. Being controlled by the family may seem be difficult but it is one of the beautiful control which makes us feel safe and secure.

 

Love The Older Ones In Your Family

 

     To love and being loved is one of the greatest feeling which we can make a human being extremely happy. We will love only few people in our life and they will always remain close to our hearts. It starts from our mother and ends with grandchildren. A person’s first love will always be their mother and it will remain special and evergreen due to the mutual bond we share. Next, a person many love so many people who are part of their life from their father, siblings, aunts, uncles, partner, children and finally it comes to an end with grandchildren.

     The bond between the grandparents and grandchildren will remain special all the time. Both grandparents and the grandchildren will be child at heart. When an person grow old in life we gain so much maturity and at certain point in life that maturity will get transformed into love.

      Respect and love your grandparents because they are older human with childlike innocence in heart. Love those grown up children like you love yourself and the way you deserve to be loved.

Beauty Of Life

 

     Human life can be differentiated into many phases. During each phase of our life we learn something new, we practice something which we already know and we became better in some way. When we move from our childhood days to our teenage years we understand that we are an individual being and we are responsible for the things we do in our life. When we move from the teenage years to our adulthood we understand that we are should take that responsibility and make ourselves a better person to face the world around us. We evolve, change, become responsible during each phase to make our life better.

     Each phase of our life makes us wise in so many ways. We became more kind and we understand all the human feelings and emotions. Life becomes meaningful, we transform in so many ways – from being selfish to selfless, bad to good, anger to love. We change ourselves for something good and worthy.

     At the end of all this life is a journey of self-realization. Each phase of our life teaches and makes us feel that we still have the opportunity to make ourselves better in all possible ways. So, at whatever phase of life you are try and learn the beautiful things which can make you realize your truest self which you have not yet discovered.

 

Resolution

 

     New Year is the time for resolutions, starting something new, leaving something bad and trying to become the better version of ourselves. We take resolutions like reading certain number of books, reduce the usage of mobile phones, to eat healthy food and to stay fit. The list goes on and on with so many things to practice, few things to change and many things to learn. For this New year try and make a different resolution which can genuinely make you a better person which also gives you so many reasons to fall in love with yourself a bit more.

     There will be people around us whom we admire a lot. For example: we may admire the patience of our mother, the calmness of our father, ever smiling face of our neighbor and so many other qualities from so many other people around you. This year try and learn a quality which you admire the most from the closest person in your life. Practice that quality and give yourself a chance to make that quality as your own character.

     By doing this we will get immense amount of self-confidence, belief, happiness and self- love. Try to be calm, smile from your heart, never hurt people, love everyone around you and stay grounded. Life is beautiful when we became the simplest person with all positive human emotions and joy. Make this year a memorable year by practicing things which you truly love.

Happy New Year 2021

 

     With each passing year in life we learn many things and life too teaches us so many things. Life is the process of learning and making ourselves into a better human. All this process of learning and understanding the things around us makes us realize “How beautiful human life is?” There are many happiest moments, learning moments, enjoying moments and loving moments in life. When we look back at the years we have come across we realize that life was always beautiful in so many innumerable ways. We may have not noticed that during that particular time or phase but when we look back everything will seem to be more beautiful.

     Make this year a happy year and be there for the people you love. Spread love, happiness and good vibes all throughout this year. Make this year memorable and do things which makes you happy. Never hurt people rather love each and everyone around you. Learn things which can make you a better human. Read lot of books, thank god for everything, stay grounded and most importantly love yourself as much as you love the people around you.

WISH YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR 2021