Calmness

 

     A single story will be different versions from each one’s perspective and there will also be so many interpretations about a single story. Here, the story is the incidents happen in each person’s life. When something happens and that creates a problem or chaos in the family or between friends there will be a many perspectives for that single incident. All the perspectives will have some logic and some truth in it which is extremely unavoidable. It is hard to conclude and tell which one is right and which person in wrong.

      Here, we have to understand that when we have difference of opinion or a small fight/problem with others there will definitely be a story from their perspective which we cannot understand. So, whenever you face issues which you cannot tackle then stay calm and think from the opposite person’s perspective but it will be hard to think from others perceptive when we are involved in that same issue. On the other hand, it is not definitely impossible when we give time to calm ourselves and then think about that particular incident from the opposite person’s perceptive.

      Many things in life are easier to say but it is hard to put them into practice. This is one among such situation which is easy to preach but practicing that is tough buts the individuals who can master that can win themselves. Practice the things which seems to impossible when it feels like a good or essential quality for you to lead a better life.

 

Good Opinions

      Human beings are the only beings in this planet who are gifted with the ability to think and differentiate between which is good and which is wrong. No other being have the ability to think and analyze things. We humans know which is wrong and which is right but most of the times we choose wrong things over the right. The other mistake which we often commit is the ability to change our mindset. When someone says, what we do is wrong we never try to understand or even hear their perspective rather most of us became rude towards the opinion of others which is totally wrong.

      We always think and believe that our side of the story and perspective this good and correct. Rather, we should hear the opinion of others about ourselves and all the people will definitely not have any bad intentions to spoil your life. Few people will be genuine in stating their opinions. Here, we should take the good and valid opinions of others into consideration because that is the only way we can grow better in life. It is normal to have flaws in our character because at the end of the day we all are human beings and it is normal to make mistakes but it is not at all normal to neglect the genuine opinions of others. The most intelligent person you know might suffer from anger issues and they could not able to control their anger at any point in time. This could be their biggest flaw and due to this quality their intelligence might not get noticed. Here, that person should definitely take the opinion of others about his anger and he should try to solve them.

        Be a person who is ready to hear the opinion of others and definitely be the person who is ready to accept the correct opinions and take them into consideration. Life is all about evolving and being the better version of ourselves.

 

The Greatest Gift

     We human beings can choose few things in life but many thing in life remains to be a gift and when cannot choose them rather they will choose us to be a part of itself. We can choose our education, job, career and the things we buy like car, house and clothes. On the other hand, we cannot choose our family – our father, mother, siblings, relatives and children. They all are the god given gift to us and so we consider all them so special than the things we choose in our life. Gifted things remain unchangeable but the things we choose can be changed and so we often suffer to choose right things in life.

      Human beings are special especially the people whom we are related to always hold a special place in our heart as well as in our life. They are irreplaceable and if you are a person who is gifted with a loving family then you are the most special human being because many people suffer in life with this irreplaceable gifts. If you are happy and satisfied with those people then you are the special person whom god loves so much. Most of the people underestimate or never estimate the true value of the relationships we have with the members in our family rather we focus on the faults and flaws. Never live your life lethargically by undervaluing the love of your family rather cherish and make it special.

       If you have people in your life to hug you during your happy days and to weep your tears during your sad days then that is the biggest gift which you cannot earn by any worldly things. Understand and acknowledge the true facts about our existence. Our life is much more blessed than we think.

 

 

 

 

Blissful Day

     Every human being in this earth could have enjoyed the days in which they have felt happy and joyful for no reason. Sometimes in life there will be sudden unexpected happiness or the state of bliss which will hit us and that could make us happy just for no reason. Some days when we raise up from our sleep we could feel the sense of peace and happiness inside. Everything which we look could seem to be vibrant and positive. There could be a sense of calmness in air and it could feel like that we have found our answer for our existence in this beautiful world.

      A person who have felt that can only relate with this words and the ones who could not able be connect with this words have not lived their life to its fullest. Life is a state of bliss and only during few days we could able to connect ourselves which that pure state. Keep your heart light and mind pleasant to feel that emotion.

       Live for such days which you cannot express in mere words.

Refresh Yourself

 

     Few things in life will give us ultimate confidence and belief in ourselves. When we do certain things it will naturally boost our self-confidence to a different level. We are human beings and it is normal to have low days but during certain days we could face a different kind of issues and that could eventually lead to lack of focus and concentration in the things we do. To overcome the lack of concentration and to turn your bad days into good days do certain things which will boost your inner self.

     Few simple things which will help you boost your self are dressing up neatly, making a call to the person whom we love to talk, re-reading your favorite book, watching your favorite movie or any particular scene from a movie which you love to watch, reading your old diary entries, cleaning up your place or the room. There are many others things which we can do to feel good and that goodness will eventually bring lot of positive vibes and that positive vibes can be converted into anything good.

      Controlling the uncontrollable will make us feel happy about ourselves. Life is the process of learning and evolving. So upgrade few things to your older version and make yourself comfortable towards the situation you face in life.

 

Compassion

      We human beings throughout our life are in the process of learning the good qualities which will help us to lead a happy and peaceful life. The qualities which we possess should not harm others rather that should help the people in some way to make their lives better and happier. We help others to make them happy, we give to see others happy, we appreciate people to make them happy, we love others to make them feel special but most of us fail for acquire the quality of compassion which will make a huge difference in the life of others.

      Being compassionate towards others will make us realize the human side of our character. When people suffer in life we most of the time just watch their suffering and walk away by telling that they are living their own karma. We give so many reasons for not being kind and compassionate towards others. Feeling compassionate towards our fellow humans is one of the greatest quality which will lead us to help that person in all possible ways.

        There is a most colloquial proverb in tamil “Manushana pirandha irakka padanum” which means “Human beings should essentially possess the quality of compassion”. So, be compassionate towards others and especially towards the people who suffer in life. Don’t mock at anyone because mockery is one of the unwanted quality which will make us lose all our good qualities.

Help The People Who Deserve To Be Helped

     One of the best quality which every human being should learn and practice is the tendency of helping others. The most important aspect which we should keep in mind is that “Help the people who genuinely needs your help”. Don’t just help the random people for all random reasons rather choose the people and help them to uplift themselves. It can also be stated as “Help the people who deserve to be helped”.

      Few people might ask help for just unwanted things because they might be lazy to do their given tasks. Never help the people who are lazy in life. Help the ones who are genuinely trying to improve themselves. Make sure our help should create a difference in their life in a more positive way. Help the people in all possible ways because people need a hand to lift them up so be that hand for someone.

      If you find a spark in someone’s character and hard work then volunteer yourself and help them. Help the people by guiding them in right direction. There are different types of helps but among them the best help will definitely be the help which we do for the people who are struggling to come up in their life. Be a Changemaker.