Forgive and Forget

      We humans learn to forgive but we never learn to forget. When someone does something bad to us we keep that in our mind for a longtime and it takes certain time to accept that. Then, we forgive and accept them considering it as human flaws but we never try to forget that and it turns to be our own flaw.

      When we forgive and accept we only move on with that same scars within us but when we forget the scars too will leave us. All this task of forgiving and forgetting seems to be easy when they are written in words but it is hard to accept that in real life. It will take a longtime to recover from that bad phase. Then, when we try to forgive and we forgive after sometime but we never even think of forgetting. That is where we human beings go wrong. We feel that the scar should be their within to remind us not to commit that same mistake of trusting people again in our life. Rather, the scar within us tells us not to believe in people and it leads us in a wrong way of doubting other individuals.

      Here, forgetting will always help us better to understand our fellow human in a correct sense by removing our blur. Forgetting introduces us to the world of new ideas and perspectives. So, learn to forget the things which have hurt you but accept the person with the extreme love and that will reflect our character as a good human.