Maturity Towards Live and Living

      Every teenager and Adult will have one doubt in common. “Whether Maturity is a Gift or an Curse”. Some consider maturity as a gift but many see that as a curse. We believe that getting matured in life is all about sacrifice and we think that it will never help us in any way.

      The truth is that we consider maturity as a act of accepting the things which everyone around us does to us but our assumption is totally wrong. The real maturity lies in Understanding other but not in accepting them. The act of understanding gives us clarity to accept things in life. At first, try and understand the situation of others. Analyze their situation with multiple perspectives then accept them whole-heartedly. Understanding and accepting are very tasks but the real strength lies in sustaining our level of understanding because our mind will think in a way that “ Why I only have to understand and accept always and why the other individuals are not doing that same to me”. Here, is where our true maturity is tested.

      To overcome this behavior we have first understand our mind better than we understand others around us. The fact and the truth here is everyone cannot understand us in the same way we understand them because they might have not attained that maturity in their life to see the perspective of others. We cannot and never expect others to understand our sacrifice because this is not in our control. We can always control the controllable. So, we should control and make our mind understand that we are one among that unique human being who can understand, accept and love others with their flaws.

       Be that unique individual and believe that people around us are different so that we will never expect them to be the same as we are as an individual because not everyone is matured enough to understand life.