Practice What You Preach

     Paulo Coelho once said, “We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, and very good judges for the mistakes of others”. It indicates that we humans never care about our behavior and attitude rather we always focus on others mistakes. We many of us know more about the people around us rather than knowing ourselves. We never follow what we preach and here is where all the problems and irritation starts. We expect the people around us to be kind, loving, caring and when they get angry or irritated we could not able to tolerate their behavior and eventually that leads to gossiping about that particular individuals character. On the other hand, we never follow the things which we expect from other people rather we give so many reasons to our behavior.

      If you are bad then accept that and try to change that rather if you are good cherish that and develop your goodness but the problem here is all the people in the world love to hold the tag of “Good People”. A bad person thinks that he is good, the good thinks he is good and the ones who are in the middle of both bad and good also thinks that they are good. We many of us belong to the third category, we might be good sometimes and we will be judgmental few times. All of us are trying to became good but only few reach that state of goodness because many people accept their flaws and they never try to change themselves rather they became lawyers for themselves.

       Accepting our mistakes and flaws indicates our goodness but changing them into good ones shows our greatness. So, try and became a great individual and never compare yourself with other during this process because human beings are different in their own ways