Life Itself: Special

     Each day of the week, each day of the month and each month of the year have different vibes. All the 365 or 366 days have their own frequency and vibration. Some days are positive, few days are mediocre and others days are dragging. So each day have its own uniqueness. In the same way, each month of the year have its own hidden beauty in it. For some people January will be the most special month, for some December will be the most special month. Each one of us have different frequency and vibration with each month.

     Discover which month is the special month of the year according to you and make it even more special by doing something which you love – like travelling, reading your favorite books and eating the food you love. On the other hand we will never love few months and it too will differ from each one. So, find out the months which does not excite you and make them better by spending more time with your family and friends, try out new things which you feel like doing and make them special in the own way.

     Atlast, enjoy your life on this earth by cherishing the life you live. If we don’t love our life, life also won’t love us back so it is upto us to make our life special. Make it special by filling it with happiness.

The Undeniable Emotion

     Fear is the most undeniable emotion which is so hard to eliminate from our life. All our other emotions such as happiness, anger and envy have the power to affect other individuals around us but fear is the only emotion which solely affects us. Fear is considered to be the internal emotion which is inseperable sometimes. Even the most positive, strongest and intellectual individuals are also the person who have so many fears within them. So, it is the most common emotion as well as the most personal emotion. We cannot talk about all our fears to others individuals around us because it will make us even more weaker.

     We fear for the known and the unknown. There will always be a question in our mind “How do and will I overcome my fear?” it is so hard to answer this question but it is even more hard to practice the answer if at all it is answered. Nobody can master fear. Even reading about fear will give us some sort of fear which is unavoidable.

     The only way to reduce our fear is to accept them without pretending that we are fearless. There are two types of fear – known and the unknown. Sometimes, we have the fear towards completing our tasks correctly and this kind of fear is somewhat good because it will help us to stay focused – this is called as the fear towards the known. The second one is the fear which randomly comes into our mind such as what if this happens, what if that happens and what if this goes wrong. It is called as "If" fear or "the fear of assumption".

     So, try and differentiate between your known and unknown fears and stop worrying and fearing about the unknown and if fears because that is purely unnecessary which will spoil our peace of mind. Fear towards your known fears and that will help you to do your duty properly. Finally, when you believe in yourself without any self-doubts all your fears will vanish off and turn out into unknown fears.

    "Stop fearing and start believing that you can and you will".

 

Learn From Your Near and Dear ones

     We human beings have the quality of looking up at someone in life. We tend to consider them as the perfect & best beings in the world. Most of the times we look up at someone whom we never know personally starting from movie stars, cricketers, Scientists and authors. It is not so wrong to look at someone who has achieved so much in their life but by setting those people as our example we can only acquire inspiration. They can only be a source of inspiration in our life but we can acquire knowledge, wisdom and all the good traits only from the people around us or the people whom we know personally.

     Learn the life lessons from your parents, siblings, friends, teachers and relatives. Observe each of them keenly to know about their best qualities. Each of them whom we know in our life is different, special and unique in their own ways. The most special thing about learning from your close ones is that we can observe them closely which is not possible with any starts we know only through television and internet.

     At first, start your learning process from your parents and siblings. They will have so many good traits for which they will be respected by everyone around them but we could be unaware of that special qualities which they possess. For example – My Father is the most positive person that I have ever known in my life. He could be the silent spectator observing all the impossible and finally he could make them possible in his own style. Next, my Mother is the person who has the capacity to change anything through her kindness. Kindness is the tool she uses to conquer everyone and everything around her.

     So, learn good things from everyone whom you love and respect in your life. Follow them to make your life and living an better one.

Your Decisions Define Your Destiny

     We human beings at many times in life are afraid to take “Decisions”. We postpone and prolong to decide something because of the fear of losing things in life. We dwell upon the unnecessary thoughts and that manifests & increases the fear of failure within us. We have the fear of breaking up the friendship which we have with the friend who doesn’t even consider us as their friend, we have the fear of leaving the job or the course which we are unwilling doing for the sake of doing. We think more but we react and act too less.

     Life might be waiting for us to take that better decision but when we hold on with the unwanted things we tend to lose the “beauty of life”. Before making an decision we might think “How and What my life will be without that person, that job and that course” but we never understand that destiny would be holding something special for us. Rather, we worry and make things worse.

     Make an appropriate decision during the most appropriate time because the decision which we make today will make us wise and happy in the future. If your intuition feels like something is going wrong in your life, hear your inner voice and calling. Make a decision which you will never regret in life but at the same time be brave in doing the things which feels right for you.

Happy Living

     Do you like boring individuals??? Will you love to talk with the negative minded personalities??? If your answer for both this questions were “Yes” then you can stop reading this post further and can continue with your own work but if you are the person who don’t love to be with boring and negative minded people this post is absolutely for you.

Now, if you are still reading this ask all this questions to yourself

1.      I’m I a boring individual?

2.      Do people love my company and spending time with me?

3.      I’m I a positive Individual?

4.      Do I love myself?

5.      Is my soul happy?

     Is it hard to figure out the answers especially for the fifth question, then here are the few tips to make your soul happy. Your soul will be happy when your mind is filled with positive emotions and when your heart is filled with gratitude. When we wake up each morning with the attitude of laziness then the gratitude in our hearts will vanish in air because laziness won’t occur to the individuals who feel thankful for leading this wonderful life. When your mind is filled with the thoughts of yesterday, tomorrow, past and the future then there is no room for all the positive emotions because a positive mind will always live in the present. Now, you could have a got a clarity about how to make your soul feel happy.

     ”Your soul should feel happy to wake up each morning to meet your beautiful heart and blissful mind which will make your life wonderful”.

MS Dhoni - The Epitome of Humanity

     MS Dhoni in his press conference after world T20 final against Sri Lanka in 2014 said “There’s hardly any good or bad in Indian cricket that happens without my name”. His statement is absolutely true till date. He is the only man who can bring smile and the tears of happiness in the eyes of the cricketing fans by hitting that winning six in world cup 2011 and this same man will leave the people in tears by announcing the expected thing in the more unexpected way. The world will always have a huge admiration towards this kind of Self-made individuals or the so called internal individuals and that is what proved once again through this retirement from international cricket.

     The internet and social media are filled with the images, videos and interviews of Dhoni with hash tags such as “ Dhoni retires, End of the Era, Never retires from the hearts”. We tell that it is the shocking and unexpected news but does that really so much shocking. The answer will be an absolute no. Every cricketer and fans expected that Dhoni could announce his retirement but some of them had the desire to watch him play the T20 world cup. Apart from all this we know how unpredictable his decisions are.

     More than a cricketer he was loved by the people for this attitude, character and his simple but great philosophies towards life. He remains calm like a monk in both victory and defeat. More than the game of cricket he understood the game of life better which helped him to be the person who he is today. We always admire the legends from all walks of life but admiration will never take us anywhere so learn the best qualities from them. The three things which everyone should learn from Dhoni is

1.      Never take success to your heart and never take failures to your head because both will spoil your peace of mind.

2.      Think hundred times before you take a decision but once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man.

3.      Be kind and carry a smile on your face irrespective of all the odds you face in your life.

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Stop Creating and Start Discovering

     Have you ever thought about the difference between creating and discovering. We have our own answers for both this words. Creation is making something new which never exists in this world but discovering is like exploring or finding things which already exits but unknown to the world. So, here there is the vast difference between both creating and discovering.

     We humans sometimes end up being unsuccessful in life irrespective of all our hard work and efforts which we have put forth towards our desires. All this happens because we try to create something which doesn’t exist within ourselves which particularly means “We are running behind something which we lack in our essence.” We might be an artistic person but we will run behind science to succeed in life. At, the end the mission of our life will turn out to be impossible. Then all the negative traits start to develop and finally we became that so called “negative minded personality”.

     To be positive and successful in life discover your inner calling. Observe yourself keenly and make your strengths and passion into profession. Never even try to create something which you are not meant for. Stop creating and start discovering because creation takes lots of effort and time but discovery is all about passion.